How common is it for men to like giving oral to women?

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I’ve slept with three men. None of them have even tried to give me oral. One said he had with a previous partner and didn’t like it. The others didn’t even try. Am I unlucky or is this normal? Well I know it’s not normal, but is this wildly out of the norm or only slightly out of the norm?

And for the men answering, I kind of think you will skew to the ‘yes I love it’ side, but you’re already showing your interest by being on this forum. So how about other men you know? Do they like it?

Women - what shall I do? I kind of feel it’s becoming a dealbreaker. With current (fairly new) man I’ve mentioned it a couple of times briefly, out of the bedroom. I feel like I don’t want to ask in bed as maybe he doesn’t want to (fair enough) and I’d rather a man wanted to do it, and asked ME rather than me asking HIM.

My partner is the first bloke who doesn’t like oral. Giving or receiving. The sex is shit actually

This really is something that needs to be sorted before you start referring to them as “partner”. Sex isn’t everything in a relationship or friendship but when it’s not right, the chances of other things going wrong are higher.

I have been with him for 6 years- he is my partner 🤔

Dear me. I'd have thought that a major part of an intimate relationship is to have an enjoyable intimate life. Otherwise, if you merely admire a person's witty conversation or taste in clothes you're better off keeping them in the friendzone, surely? I've been in relationships where sex has declined in enthusiasm and quality, but this has often reflected the way that the relationship itself is going badly, and I've been fortunate enough to extract myself sooner or later. I've also perhaps been lucky in that I've found partners who've been enthusiastic about the cunning linguistics. In the case of a couple of bad relationships I can think of it was more like a free introductory offer, and after a few months or a year or two it declined, but this was accompanied by them becoming ill-tempered and manipulative too, so it was a kind of barometer of their attitude towards me. If the oral skills are good, the relationship is usually good in my experience.

Sorry, l worded that badly; Sunday morning sleepy eyes and all that. What l was trying to say was that these things need sorting before they become your partner.

@StarlightLady absolutely agree. I wish I had. I just kept hoping things would improve! Before we had sec he told me he loved oral- turns out it was a lie!

@BigButtons - So sorry to hear this and wish you well ❤️.