How common is it for men to like giving oral to women?

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I’ve slept with three men. None of them have even tried to give me oral. One said he had with a previous partner and didn’t like it. The others didn’t even try. Am I unlucky or is this normal? Well I know it’s not normal, but is this wildly out of the norm or only slightly out of the norm?

And for the men answering, I kind of think you will skew to the ‘yes I love it’ side, but you’re already showing your interest by being on this forum. So how about other men you know? Do they like it?

Women - what shall I do? I kind of feel it’s becoming a dealbreaker. With current (fairly new) man I’ve mentioned it a couple of times briefly, out of the bedroom. I feel like I don’t want to ask in bed as maybe he doesn’t want to (fair enough) and I’d rather a man wanted to do it, and asked ME rather than me asking HIM.

I was with my ex wife for 23 years, she never let me go down on her for more than 20 seconds in that time, said it was dirty and I wouldn’t like it
msny a year when asked what I’d like for Xmas I’d say for her to shave her pussy and let me lick her to pleasure
she called me a pa##0

since leaving her, I ve never met a lady who doesn’t enjoy it

I give my wife oral everytime we have sex. I really enjoy the intimacy.

She always say it's her favourite part of sex although she seldom orgasms from it. Quite different to the other women I had been with before I met her. They could orgasm easily from it.

OP, I'd say most long-isg term partners have wanted to give me oral. Thinking about it, it was always less common with ONS.

My DH absolutely loves it, says it's his favourite thing to do in the bedroom! Most partners I've had have done it although some only did it because I enjoyed it and not because they liked the act itself.

i find it incredibly intimate giving oral, always have bur fully aware that over the years it’s something DW has gone from actively engaging with and to the best of my knowledge enjoying, to something she really doesn’t want pushing me away if I try, I’ve asked her if there’s a problem but never get an answer, so just don’t bother anymore

In the same way a woman sometimes relishes the total control she can have over her man's pleasure during oral, recently I've loved feeling how her body responds to every delicate touch or teasing with my tongue.....she's so sensitive....I try and listen to her body, to her breathing and go from there.....
I think it's what we men call "learning on the job!"

So yes, I love giving Oral to a sensitive woman who enjoys the pleasure, but if she's not in the mood, or generally not interested in receiving, I go with it.
There's plenty of other options ;-)

There is nothing better for me than receiving oral.

I can cum over and over again in one session.

My husband can keep going for ages, it makes me squirm, squirt, shake like a leaf, it feels incredible.

The build up is amazing, getting that first tingle and knowing the orgasm is ready and waiting to pounce.

Mrs D doesn't really enjoy receiving it

I am like many guys posting in that I adore giving oral. I would rather give pleasure than receive, and I love the impact it has when I give it. If she is happy to sit on my face....even better....

Everyone’s different so hard to say. Lots of guys will say it to entice and then not do it.
Others give to receive. Others have genuine joy not in the act but really turning the lady on and giving her orgasms. Lastly there are situational people too. I’d only do it with someone I really liked - I’d say many women are the same but again there are some women who will do it for everyone they sleep with and some not at all.

I think you've been unlucky - in a much bigger sample size of the men I've slept with, I've only encountered one guy who never did it.

Of the others who did, I'd say 10% actively wanted to do it as a thing by itself (rather than as a prelude to PIV), 60% did it without being asked and enthusiastically, and maybe the other 30% as an obvious 'I have to do this then we can have sex'. And women always, always have.

Maybe it's that I've been lucky, rather than the other way round? I've always been a bit baffled when people say men don't like it because that's not been my experience.

Maybe the men you are most naturally attracted to tend to be the more sexual ones, who knows!
It's been about half and half for me

It’s a mixture, I find men either love it or hate it. I don’t want someone doing something to me they don’t want to do. Same as blow jobs, not every woman enjoys doing that (I’m in the love doing it category) and so shouldn’t feel like they have to. I tend to get my biggest orgasms from oral.

I've always loved giving Sadly, my wife doesn't reciprocate but I'm still more than happy to do what I enjoy and she enjoys it too.
I live in hope.....

Not gonna happen.

I know, but thanks for the helpful advice.

@NDerbys32 Sorry that was a bit blunt, I just meant the people who don't like doing things sexually are allowed to not do things, but you are also allowed to want them and think about if you want to stay together.
But you won't get it from her so no point hoping.
Either accept it as it is, or split up.

Married 38 yrs. Splitting up wouldn't cross my mind over one aspect of our life.
Seems to be quite the common fast time reaction on here, to give terminal advice about relationships on the basis of a single post.
Interesting.

Typical man arguing 😂
Well stop hoping then, it's pointless. She doesn't like it. You will never get a blowjob again in your life. If you can live with that then that's great.

I can live without that as long as the brownie points keep landing for 'services rendered' and my cooking, so I can fish and get to the match 🤣

My wife loves giving and receiving oral. She says most guys have reciprocated. She’s always waxed bare so that may have encouraged them LOL.

Why would that encourage them?

I think he just enjoys posting about his wife's genitals over and over again. Wonder if she knows 🤢

It does for me. To each their own.