Aibu - men on sex topic

[Anxiodogo]

AIBU to picture many of the men who respond as being Kevins from Motherland?
It's the way they are so caring and at pains to make sure all women know they are all beautiful and should feel amazing. And really, they could never spank or choke Jill even if she wanted to because it wouldn't feel respectful or right.

It's absolutely unfair when driven by differences of opinion about the sex board in general a poster repeatedly has their posts singled out, dissected, taken out of context and derided on other boards and even other fora by the same group of posters and others they manage to pull in.

i don’t really want to go here, but at the same time I feel like I need to defend myself. In the past I had my drink spiked and was subsequently raped. I do sympathise with the person whose husband ejaculated inside her, but the sex was consensual, they had been talking about expanding their family. I am the complete opposite of a rape apologist. Ffs

Disgusting.

@DancingInSpace what the fuck?

It’s not unfair. When you observe it happening, it’s just what’s happening. Over and over.

It’s completely unfair that women are abused, raped and murdered everyday. It’s also unfair that a woman is prepared to single another woman out specifically when it had no relevance to them to protect another male poster.

In true Motherland style, this thread has got really sad. I'm sorry you went through that traumatic expeience @Mermaidparades

I'm really sorry to hear you experienced that @Mermaidparades , that shouldn't happen to anyone, ever.

Of course it sad and shouldn’t happen. Just like a man shouldn’t ejaculate inside a woman if she hadn’t consented but some posters seem to think it’s not too bad really and defend that man. Wtaf?

@Mermaidparades I think a large percentage of women at some point in their life have experienced sexual abuse in their life. At 18 I had 40 something men commenting on my arse and legs whilst wearing a knee length skirt, I knew no better then to laugh it off, then it progressed to a comment about wanting to push me over their desk and take me from behind. The truth is a percentage of men will dominate women for as long as it’s tolerated. If you want to choose a side, you only have to look at the actions of both genders.

@Anxiodogo @Surplus2requirements thank you

I don’t intend to choose a side. My world is not men vs women. My DP is amazing, I am his equal, we adore and respect each other. I don’t believe I’ve found the only decent man ever

I don’t mean literally, I mean in supporting women in general.

You have chosen a couple of threads where I have disagreed with your opinion, and decided I hate women. I don’t feel that you really have a rounded opinion of me!

A couple of threads? I’m not sure what threads you’re referring to.

@Coffeeandcake15 How did you come to the conclusion that I need to support women instead of men?

Well I made a comment, you jumped in to defend the male poster when the post had no relevance to you.

But I didn’t agree with you. Whether you’re male or female isn’t relevant here.

It's on days like this that I like to delve into MN Classics, to remind myself how warm, friendly and engaging this site can be....

You didn’t agree with me on what exactly?

Classics is full of made up threads...

@Coffeeandcake15 I thought you decided you weren’t going to derail this thread??
I’m done bickering, if you read back you’ll find the answer
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If the sex board men are Kevins (they’re not!!) who are the women???

You actually saw my comment to @Surplus2requirements , questioned the context behind him calling me a name, before even reading my thread on a separate topic. Your intention was to defend the male poster, let’s be honest.

It's not your board.