Aibu - men on sex topic

[Anxiodogo]

AIBU to picture many of the men who respond as being Kevins from Motherland?
It's the way they are so caring and at pains to make sure all women know they are all beautiful and should feel amazing. And really, they could never spank or choke Jill even if she wanted to because it wouldn't feel respectful or right.

You're perfectly entitled to find me or anyone else deeply unsexy but I don't think most here post for titillation and I really don't mind if you think I'm a Kevin (whatever that means).

It does seem a slightly odd thing to start a thread about though.

If you're looking for wolves I'm sure there's better places to look than MN.

I just don't know why anyone would try and reply if they don't know who Kevin is.

And I am not 'looking' for anyone!

@Anxiodogo It was because of the condescension oozing from your OP.

Still a bit odd. I'm fairly sure I wouldn't like to be in a relationship with a lot of posters in Relationships but why would I tell them that?

If I feel like I have something useful and helpful to add I do so but I wouldn't start by giving them derogatory titles.

I don't post on this board because it's 'sexy' it's a board about sex, there's a world of difference and it doesn't even enter my mind whether what I post makes me look sexy or not.

Why would I even care?

Well it's made me laugh.
Do watch motherland. Elsewhere on mn it's a big favourite and very funny.
Then you also might know what I mean.

I'd be interested to know how many Lizs, Julias and Amandas you've noticed on MN too. I imagine there's a fair few who'd own up to or aspire to being one or other of the first two, but wouldn't recognise an Amanda in themselves...

Maybe I'm amanda. She is actually the most sexy

It's good to laugh so that's a result

I remember watching this. I’m a Liz with more black eyeliner. I still don’t see the men here as Kevin’s though.

You're never a Liz. It's quite clear you give a lot more than a f* for all sorts of things - especially on here!

Just had a spare 10 minutes over lunchtime to have a look at Motherland which I'd not seen or heard of before.
Yes, actually very funny. But there's no way ever, ever, ever in a million years I could relate to being a Kevin! 🤣🤣🤣

@everywhichway my partner called me his Stevie Nicks this morning 🤩

A very talented and alluring lady - I should take the compliment if I were you!

Totally! And I did a witchy little dance for him as a thank you 😁

Well I don't know who he is, so I googled it (initially evisaged some kind of out of touch alien character from a sci fi, which almost sounds as though that's the analogy the creators were making).

This came up in the search results, and despite being in the DM, it might give the OP some food for thought: www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11659847/BBC-sitcom-Motherlands-portrayal-Kevin-makes-mockery-stay-home-dads-says-lecturer.html

Anyway I'm nothing like him, but I am a single dad of 3 so that's why I originally ventured onto MN. I generally only use this username when it's pertinent to let other posters know that I'm a man, otherwise I post under a more gender anonymous username to keep my head under the parapet.

I get what you are saying, OP.

Made me smile

You flatter me!

More like: Sunt bona, sunt quaedam mediocria, sunt mala plura.

(Some good, some alright, and more that is less so.)

I haven't seen the show but I understand that Kevin from Motherland is one of those amiable, bumbling, and slightly drippy male characters that British television tends to delight in.

@Catullus5 yes, being likened to Kevin certainly isn’t a compliment

This is how I imagine the men from the sex topic

You’re imagining the men from the Sex Topic?? It’s a shame the Sex Chat got pulled, you could have got yourself some action!

@AbsolutePixels
Fantastic! 😂
(Actually my role-model - and I have a pair of sexy boxers like those on my birthday list...!)

Lynne, I'm just going to warn you.... I have popped out again

You’re imagining the men from the Sex Topic?? It’s a shame the Sex Chat got pulled, you could have got yourself some action!

I could've advertised myself as 40-year-old scorcher.

I think they’re just ordinary men, really. Some in jeans and a shirt, some in joggers and a hoodie. Some funny, some serious. They aren’t a separate species, they aren’t deviants, and they don’t deserve disparagement. I know I’ll get all the usual BS on the other website for saying this, but whatever. Hopefully they’ll stop putting up the memes though, they hurt my feelings a bit 🤣