AMA Swingers clubs.

[MrsBerthaRochester]

Anything you ever wanted to know about Swingers clubs/parties but were afraid to ask? And yes I know there is an mn Sex topic but its full of hairy handed trolls.

Apologies I didnt know there was an AMA topic.MN can move it if they wish.

@timeforanewoneofthese I agree the language is coy. But if someone uses fun/play they mean sex took place.

Killing kittens still vet people on their attractiveness/weight. Im sure their website says otherwise as they dont want to face any discrimanotory actions.

@milkyaqua

Gross.

Why is this in Chat and not in the designated AMA section?

Telling people to hide the thread if they don't like it is not helpful as it is in the Trending Now box.

Unless you find the title itself incredibly upsetting, suggesting hiding it is very helpful whether it's in trending now or not.

Just because something is in the trending now list, it doesn't mean you have to click on it...

@masha17 your comment made me laugh old loud. I know the toy aswell i think.whole new definition to this pineapple party eh loaltho i am having a good giggle imagining the potential activities lol

It sounds completely rank

@namechangecity123 sorry had missed your question. I have seen men begging to be flogged in a dungeon, a huge group orgy on a stage with folk watching and a lady on a pool table having birthday cake eaten of her naked body.
Im sure far more explicit things go on but Im usually enjoying myself to much to notice.

@MrsBerthaRochester

Killing kittens still vet people on their attractiveness/weight. Im sure their website says otherwise as they dont want to face any discrimanotory actions.

That is a bit sad tbh. We all have different standards/views on attractiveness. Who is making the ultimate decision on this?

I guess I would be rejected as I my face is asymmetrical (and I have had strangers call me ugly )

Actually I saw a guy having things inserted into his penis in the medical themed room of a club. It just looked very painful! I believe its known as sounding?

@xenobitch I presume the owners? I have never applied for membership as I know Im above the dress size they accept.
Of course you are not ugly! Whoever told you so were cunts.

How many men will you have sexual activity with in one visit?

OP thanks for the education as a 47 year old mother of 3 I love reading about something I think is off limits in real life. Plus I also think op should join forces with the 30 year old who has never been kissed who has also posted in chat this evening!

@chickenstripper I generally dont. I go with men/folk I know. On only one occasion have I has sex with a guy who was a totally random stranger. Usually it will be guys I met before Or have met at a social.

@chickenstripper I have only ever had sex with two men at a club and it was a threesome( two men and myself)
Outwith the swinging scene I once had sex with three men in a day.

[quote MrsBerthaRochester]@chickenstripper I generally dont. I go with men/folk I know. On only one occasion have I has sex with a guy who was a totally random stranger. Usually it will be guys I met before Or have met at a social.[/quote]
Yes but that's not what I asked.

Ooops cross post.

I've been to one in Wiltshire back in the day when I had a FWB.

It was so boring we left!

What aspect of it do you enjoy? Being watched? Watching others? Something else?

@musttryharder2021 I think folk imagine its going to be like a huge Roman orgy. Its really not! At least not in the social/bar areas. It really is just like going to your local pub only folk dress a bit more sexy/skimpy.

@ItsDisneyBitch

I thought killing kittens was so called because every time someone masturbates somewhere a kitten gets killed.

But someone may have told me that as a wind up.

That's exactly why it's called Killing Kittens - the phrase is 'Everytime you masturbate, God kills a kitten,' so why not protect the poor kitties and satisfy your urges by swinging instead?

Was it a surprise or how you expected the first time you saw other people having sex? I've always wanted to watch another couple.

@waitingformytakeaway Im not sure any of that applies to me? I like the fact that folk are generally respectful. Men have to behave very well or they are removed.
I suppose I do quite enjoy being watched although I have only done this in a club once? We used an open room as it was the only one free and I didnt realise we were being watched until my friend told me?
I dont find watching a turn on.

@permanentTemporary I thought I would enjoy watching more? But it didnt really do anything for me?

Oh that's a shame. Maybe it would be the same.

Did you find that the most unattractive man in the room attached himself to you in the 'chat' bit and wouldn't be discouraged? That's my fear.

When it comes to oral sex are condone and dental dams generally used or not. I especially wonder about oral sex with a female as a lot of people don’t even know what a dental dam is?