About 1ce a week. Cums quickly so it's not too bad, I also plan things in my head while I'm doing it, like what I need from Tesco etc so it's ok...
@Isitrainingihadntnoticed See, this is really bad, isn't it? Should we be doing sex acts we feel this way about? I suppose it's a balance. We can do a bit of something to please a partner but maybe say no to other things.
Now I'm never doing it again!
@Meruem Yay, well done!
And there is nothing yuk about oral!
@StarlightLady I suppose some are worse than others, but the taste of c*ck can be unpleasant, and most people don't like the taste of semen. It also can be unpleasant to do deep throat or try and go very far down. I've had that I've made my eyes water.
@NoMoreFlowers Sorry to hear that. 
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I have said he has to wash it before it goes in my mouth
@Teacher12345 Lol and that's a bare minimum. I don't think we should do a thing if we don't enjoy the thing.
It's kind of sexual abusing ourselves and I'm sure it puts us off sex in the long run.
Would anyone with experience of doing them both kindly tell me which is “worse” to give?
@Catforaheadrest I don't find giving a woman oral sex unpleasant or a chore. I'm not turned on by doing it, but it's just part of sex, whereas giving head I think I actively don't really like.
As a sub I used to get off on the power play a PP mentioned, but I'm trying to do that stuff less as it has unpleasant connotations for me now of a bloke potentially having all the power in a relationship in a bad way. I know there are some D/s relationships that aren't like that though.
I’ve not received in about 2 years (and that was an annual event) because I used to feel so horribly self conscious/imagined it must be unpleasant to do/not sure he enjoys doing it. But I’m starting to feel a bit more... well, it’s bloody well my turn.
Aww, no, it's not unpleasant at all, and you're just as deserving of pleasure as anyone that you're with. xxx