Rimming

[MidnightMoonlight]

It's not something I've ever done before and have only ever dabbled with anal with previous partners... but my new partner has asked me if I would like to try it (on him). He's left it entirely with me and won't pressure me at all if I choose not too. I am slightly intrigued by the idea as I get the feeling it's something he really likes. But I'm scared. For the same reasons I've never really got into anal - poo! I find it odd that some people see it as a sexual body part considering it's function! Any tips, advice, reading material for me?

If you don't fancy it then don't do it. I don't find it sexual in anyway.

Ask him if he'd like to rim you first?

I do it. It was never really discussed. I just did it. He loves it.
If you don't fancy it then don't do it.
It doesn't taste or smell of anything.

I guess it comes down to how well he wipes and how well groomed he keeps his hoop.

I don't think I'd fancy doing it on a new partner, I could just imagine getting something chewy in my mouth 😂

If you're only intrigued because you get the feeling it's something he really likes then it's a bit odd.

Even if it's not something you'd go for off your own back I think that you being intrigued by it and willing to give it a go is great.

Make sure he is fully clean and showered first and start slow. Give it a tease with your tongue. You don't have to go full on.

Oh my god I'm crying at how groomed he keeps his hoop.

Thank you for that.

I'll try a lot of things but it's a huge no from me!

Cut a condom in half and use it as a barrier to ensure you are safe.

I teach sex ed BTW.

Cut it on half length ways obvs

I guess it comes down to how well he wipes and how well groomed he keeps his hoop.

This 👆🏼made my day 😂

Go for it. He'll love it & I hope you do too. I'm in my 50's & never had a partner who's never enjoyed it.

Some guys don't "get it" but those who do, REALLY DO.

I suggest a shared shower first so you can soap up his bumhole (along with everything else) because god knows I've seen enough skid marks to know that a lot of men have no idea how to wipe their arses.

Depending on his build, you can either have him lie on his front, in which case you'll need to pull his bum cheeks apart to give you access, or if he lies on his back and pulls his legs up to his chest you can go in that way. (I feel laying on his front is easier for me, if he also raises his hips you can wank him off at the same time.)

One of those positions sounds very much like you are about to change a nappy.

Yeah it's not the most dignified! 😂

I would be laughing too much TBH. So it's a no from me.

I've yet to meet a truly dignified sexual position Ford!

If you feel like you might be into it give it a go, he obviously is, but yes, hoop cleanliness is a must.

I have a very distressing story involving the above. I shall not disturb you with it.

Not my cup of tea. I'd decline.

You could hold his ankles together and give him a quick once over with a baby wipe while you are at it.

Sparkling.

I think we're straying into entirely different territory now.

Eww yes, those giant baby people. Bleurgh.

You could hold his ankles together and give him a quick once over with a baby wipe while you are at it.

😂😂😂 I'm crying...

Have to say it sounds foul although I haven't tried it. I wouldn't try it. I just recall my biology teacher going over and over structure and function of body parts. Mouth and arse just don't mix.

I mean, men's arses have pubes round the bum hole. It just sounds so dirty.

You could use a Dettol wipe for extra cleanliness.