Can I ask how long an average sex session lasts for you?

[SookieandEric]

From start to finish: foreplay, sex, cuddle at the end?

I think I might have unrealistic expectations after ex. Have slept with three men since we split a year ago and was hoping the length of the sessions was one off unfortunates. However I'm not so sure now!

Foreplay- maybe 6-7 mins. (Children in the house.)
Sex- maybe 5 mins.
Cuddling- until we are disturbed.

But haven't had sex in three months so I may be a bit off.

But I know from looking at the clock that we can go from nothing, not even eye contact to finished in 4 mins and that's not irregular.

Are you joking?

Please tell me your joking?

Anything more than 45 minutes start to finish and I'm probably getting bit bored but then I'm not much of a cuddler so you can minus off the cuddle with me.

That's a long term relationship though. Was probably longer at the start.

20 minutes all in I reckon.

How long were you thinking?

I haven't had sex in a really long time but last time it went on for about an hour and a half...getting a bit bored by the end!

Maybe 30 actually... sometimes less. I prefer a quickie to be honest!

anywhere between 20 to 45 mins is normal for us

10-15 minutes.

The average man climaxes in around 4 minutes from first penetration do for most people the actual intercourse is quite quick.
For us foreplay can be a couple of minutes or quite lengthy depending on factors such as tiredness, time available due to children possibly waking etc. My DH will usually ensure foreplay lasts long enough for me to reach orgasm (around 20 minutes).

An average sex session with ex was about an hour. More if we had time.

I thought the last three were unfortunately fast (40 mins, 30 mins and 10 mins)

Text casual buddy (40 min man) to see if he had a few hours Saturday night. He text back and said lol not sure about a few hours, 30 mins more like!

Wanted to check if my timings were off!

That long? Really? Who has time? Pre kids we had lots of time. We still cuddle for along time, or sleep. Afterwards. But the actually sex itself is very short. Or maybe I'm just acknowledging that we prefer 'quickies' and that's all that most people can manage these days, chez kids.

Depends if toys are involved

20- 40 mins

Quickly is under 6

Cuddling afterwards can last hours whilst we sleep, unless it's a hot night and then I tell him to get his sweaty self to his side of the bed.

30 minutes is maximum. What were you expecting OP?

15 minutes or so usually

Start - finish probably about 15 mins max (kids in house & got into this habit.)
Although I wouldn't want ages as I'd get a bit bored, a bit longer now & again wouldn't go amiss...

+An average sex session with ex was about an hour. More if we had time.*

Oh gosh. I would be incredibly bored and sore by the end of that. Those length of sessions would make me avoid sex like its the plague.

I don't think I could be bothered with an hour. That's being with a humper territory.

No cuddling is a few minutes at the end.

So foreplay you have: kissing, undressing, kissing, oral (mutual I hope), general exploring/kissing/stroking, more oral if that's how woman orgasms (think most of us don't cum from PIV sex?!)

Then the actual sex, possibly more oral.

Then finish and cuddle.

How is that less than 45 odd mins?

Or do you cut it down so foreplay is just oral, or kissing and straight to sex?

Obviously we had quickies without any foreplay which would be over in ten but that's a quickie no?

20-30 mins probably

What's humper territory?

About 20 mins I think, never timed it

I had an ex who could go on for hours, he seemed to think he was doing a good job but in the end it killed our relationship. I always ended up either bored or sore.