Can I ask how long an average sex session lasts for you?

[SookieandEric]

From start to finish: foreplay, sex, cuddle at the end?

I think I might have unrealistic expectations after ex. Have slept with three men since we split a year ago and was hoping the length of the sessions was one off unfortunates. However I'm not so sure now!

It's a bit like running though, no one could do 2-3 hours the first time you have to build up to it. In the same vein, if you're used to high frequency/long sessions then less than 10 minutes every now and then just won't cut the mustard....

Also in the 20-30 min camp here. I usually have a bath first, so already naked. Two small dc's and I need my sleep. Been together 8 years and have sex once or twice a month, but it's always brilliant. We're quality not quantity folk (also get sore after more than about 15 mins of PIV).

Not been on Love Honey nor heard of a womanizer, so off to Google!

Average 45-60 minutes. If we have time and an empty house longer

it's good

We have been together three years

Anything from 10 minutes to an hour.
Average probably 30 mins

If I tried I could probably orgasm in under a minute but I prefer a build up, it makes it better.

Never really timed it but once noticed we went about 45 mins for a singular session including foreplay.

But we also have a habit of drawing foreplay out for hours. Picking up and dropping off throughout the day.

10 mins is normal. A quicky is about 3-4 minutes. Both of us orgasm very quicky.

New (but much older) partner here. Kissing, touching, mutual masturbation, oral (69 or reciprocated), fucking, slow sex, fucking, oral - on me, fucking, massage, oral - on him, masturbation of ourselves/each other.

Best bloody sex I've ever had. Takes ages - 1-2 hours?!

I'd say 10-15 mins, I usually have some love honey assistance though

I think I'd get bored and sore of anything over 40 mins!!

sookie oh he was, absolutely the best sex I ever had. But he was also a psycho that shot someone so I don't think I will go there again!

As long as both people are satisfied why does it matter how long it takes? The important bit is that the man makes sure his partner reaches orgasm at some point even if it isn't from piv. If a man cums in 4 minutes (which is average) and a woman cums in 14 minutes (which is average) then clearly most women are not going to come from piv sex.
Based on averages most sex sessions aren't going to last much more than half an hour even considering foreplay and cuddling.

4 minutes??!!

if it takes me 40 mins to come, then i wasnt that turned on to begin with. I said 20-40 mins, but tbh, id like to have more quickies too, as sometimes I turn down sex because I dont want a massive session. Theyre nice occasionally, but a few hours at a time would be too much. I dont have that sort of attention span

My friend and I always have this debate , with dp I get my orgasm with mutual foreplay he's usually ready to cum by then which suits me as I've already cum so five generous minutes later were done and cuddling playing on our phones. Where as my mate want someone pumping away for hours . I can't think of anything worse. I'd be so bored by that... An average prob 15-30 mins .

About 20 mins, which is plenty for me. We've been together a long time, know each other well, so I can come in less than 10.

We will take longer when we have longer, e.g. DD is at her grandparents. But I don't like a really long session.

Most depressing thread I've ever read.

I'm quite surprised that so many people are happy with minutes long sessions. Unless you're in a huge hurry and about to go out or something, how is that any fun? It's like ticking it off a list of things to do.

Too long

Usually an hour or a more in the evenings, 15 minutes in the mornings. But we love sex, so always make time for it.

It's not depressing if it's mutually satisfactory.
For us I'd say around 30/45 minutes sometimes more sometimes less. We are both happy with that.
And so are most people who've replied as far as I can tell.
Sex doesn't need to go on for hours to be good sex.
just because hours long sessions suit you doesn't mean they're for everyone.

It's not depressing if it's mutually satisfactory

I totally agree. Some people seem very focused on the time aspect rather than the satisfaction of both partners which is actually the important bit. I would rather a 20 minute session where we both reach orgasm and feel satisfied than a 2 hour session where only one of us or neither of us orgasm and feel nothing but frustrated and sore.

Usually between 1-2 hours all in. Massage is a large part of our foreplay (me massaging her) and that can go on for 30 - 60 minutes, she could enjoy it all night but my hands and back eventually give out. Sensual foreplay 15-30 minutes. Actual intercourse 10-20 minutes. Cuddles, I usually fall asleep rather quickly so not sure, but we sleep cuddled up together all night so depends if it matters whether we're conscious or not.

We are just busy and tired, it's really nice to steal away for a half hour. I'm not disappointed with it in the slightest, we both leave the bedroom grinning ear to ear and get on with whatever needs done!

Id be pretty disappointed if my partner only took 4 minutes to make me cum.

It's not so much the fact that some couples can both be happy within ten minutes that surprises me, if that's all you need and you both end up satisfied fair enough, obviously. It's more that so many have said they'd get bored if it went on longer than that.

Id be pretty disappointed if my partner only took 4 minutes to make me cum.
Why? Surely if your partner can make you cum in 4 minutes it means that they know exactly how to pleasure you and that you are incredibly turned on by them. how can that be disappointing? Would you rather your partner tried to pleasure you for two hours but didn't know how to push your buttons and failed miserably leaving you Unsatisfied and frustrated?