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Micropenis

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UmbongoUnchained · 04/07/2016 12:54

Had a (interesting?) conversation with my friend this morning. She's been talking to a guy for a few months on whatsapp and seemed really into him. She's met him a few times, been out for drinks thinks he could be the "one".
Apparently last night he confessed that he only has 2 and a half inches down below. She said she tried to be understanding and re assure him but she's woken up this morning suddenly feeling very different and doesn't want to continue seeing him. I understand you can't help how you feel and sex is very important to her.
It just got me wondering if it would put me off, or if it's quite a common thing?
Would it put you off? Have you ever had sex with some one with a small penis and was it really different?
I'm really curious about this Grin

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QueenofallIsee · 04/07/2016 12:59

No experience to offer but I think that a happy and fulfilling sex life should be possible under these circumstances - it just means that she has to let go of the idea that the penis is the main event. Its a shame that she is not willing to try if she thinks he is perfect for her in every other way.

ClashCityRocker · 04/07/2016 13:00

Two and a half inches when erect?

I'd like to think I'd give it a go, if he ticked all the other boxes. But if the sex wasn't enjoyable, I think that would be a deal breaker.

UmbongoUnchained · 04/07/2016 13:04

I'm not sure if it's so much the actual size of it that's put her off but the fact he kind of wrote her a long apologetic essay about it. I think that's what put her off. But I can't imagine what 2 and a half inches could do! Would it not just fall out?

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ClashCityRocker · 04/07/2016 13:07

Depends on girth, I guess. And I suppose there's lots of over things they could do - although if PIV didn't really work, I'd struggle with it, I think.

I can see why apologising for his perceived inadequacy in advance would be off-putting though. Doesn't really get the motor running does it?

gamerchick · 04/07/2016 13:09

No it doesn't just fall out.

Men are weird about their willys and it sounds as if he has a few scars re his hence the long apology.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 04/07/2016 13:11

It sounds as though he really likes her hence the essay. I wouldn't rule out a relationship at all.

Obliviated · 04/07/2016 13:13

DP has a micropenis. It's fine, we just do other stuff.

UmbongoUnchained · 04/07/2016 13:15

Hmm. Well I shall relay this all to her and see what she thinks. It would be a shame for her not to even try, but if you're turned off you're turned off!

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MrsFrankieHeck · 04/07/2016 13:15

Call me shallow but would be a deal breaker for me.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 04/07/2016 13:19

I think it would be shallow not to even try as it might be the best sex she's ever had and he might be the nicest bloke ever. It's she knows in advance and can digest the information and make her decision.

UmbongoUnchained · 04/07/2016 13:20

I think it would definitely be a deal breaker for me, but that's more to do with the kind of sex I like which just wouldn't be possible.

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 04/07/2016 13:21

** good

Queensbelfastvcisasexistprat · 04/07/2016 13:23

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DementedUnicorn · 04/07/2016 13:24

Lesbian here. There is plenty you can do without a penis Grin

ivykaty44 · 04/07/2016 13:24

But, this guy could be very skilled at lovemaking and give her plenty of orgasms in other ways.

She could go out with another ten men who all have Neanderthal wats but are well hung but fail in the sack as they just want to get their rocks of, fart and go to sleep.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 04/07/2016 13:26

Demented - yes, quite Grin

UptownFunk00 · 04/07/2016 13:29

I know a guy whose penis is probably smaller than that - pinky finger size.

He had 3 kids so obviously his wife didn't mind.
Very aggressive man though.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 04/07/2016 13:30

Poor man, have you and your friend christened him micro penis?

I read an article about a man with penile cancer who after surgery was left with two inches. His wife said they still had normal sex and did other things to fulfil each other.

This man needs to be told that after 3 dates an apologetic essay on the subject of his penis is very unnecessary and off putting. Confused

TheNaze73 · 04/07/2016 13:30

I think she can do whatever she likes personally. It's not shallow, sex is the difference between just being friends & anything else so is important.

I would however add, I agree with Queensbelfast if a bloke came on here & said he couldn't be with a woman as she had a fanjo, like a wizards sleeve, he'd get flamed Wink

Bottomchops · 04/07/2016 13:32

Tell her not to bother. You can't do much with it at all.

Mishaps · 04/07/2016 13:33

He is sensible and honest to tell her about this and not to lead her on and have her find out later and risk her feeling aggrieved. But it would not necessarily be a deal breaker for me if everything else was right. Just a bit more imagination required!

Goingtobeawesome · 04/07/2016 13:34

Maybe she should stop talking to him so he can meet someone who doesn't want a man on the basis of his dick size. She could be missing out on the perfect relationship.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 04/07/2016 13:37

You can't shag her, fanny like a bucket!

Flat as a pancake,no tits at all,what's the point ?

Avoid completely,what's the point?

Can you imagine a bloke saying that?Hmm

UmbongoUnchained · 04/07/2016 13:38

queens do you think so? I can see it from both sides though, we're all allowed to have our preferences. If a man said he could sleep with a woman because she was too loose for his penis size of think that was perfectly OK. They're not compatible.

ilost no we haven't christened him anything, we aren't cruel people. She was actually a little upset about it and I'm just quite curious as its not something I've ever heard of.

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JessicaRabbit3 · 04/07/2016 13:38

I've known people end relationships myself included but the sex was terrible and not compatible at one even with someone who was a decent size but just didn't have a clue. It would be a deal breaker for me I enjoy sex more so than foreplay

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