What do you consider to be vanilla?

[quirkycutekitch]

And what's the next step up from vanilla & has it got a name?

Next step: "a bit kinky"
Next step: "kinky"
Next step: "really kinky"
Next step: "lifestyle fetishist"

I think everyone's line is different, but to me vanilla would be
PIV sex, any position
Anal sex
Oral sex
Mutual masturbation
Talking dirty/sexting/etc

I'd probably put myself in the "a bit kinky" category, with things like
Rimming
Using toys together
Threesomes
Pegging
Light spanking
Facials

What's a facial?

What's pegging?

Anal definitely isn't in the vanilla category for me but I'm definitely a bit of a prude.

What the hell is REALLY kinky?!!

I don't think anal is vanilla either

I'm not a prude and I don't know where I'd be on the kinky scale but I wouldn't say anal is vanilla either though maybe there is a difference according to age on that one.

Raspberry ripple?

Sorry, as you were.

Vanilla = missionary position in the dark

Anything else = pervert

Joking

Just marking my place.

Fucking hell rimming is a 'bit kinky'?? Im vanilla to the extreme in that case, i dont want to lick anyones arsehole

anal is not vanilla!

To me vanilla is basic sex, no toys no games.

What pegging?

Pegging is shagging your male partner in the arse with a sex toy.

What's a facial though?

I think the first response is unlikely to tally with the majority's idea of mundane sex

Vanilla is just a stupid word for normal sex. To me that's missionary and bit boring

I thought facial was cumming on the others face? Could be wrong?

Kinky is using a feather, perverted is using the whole chicken.

WTF is really kinky if anal is vanilla?

Vanilla is missionary, lights on if you are feeling daring

Anything else = kinky

Cinnamon probably.
Then Cumin
Oh wait^

I'm very vanilla
It would not include anal

Didn't think I was particularly vanilla, but I don't do anal. Quite happy with sex toys but def not pegging. I'd say vanilla was missionary position in the dark though.

Thanks Hermione for the definition.

I would have thought vanilla was PIV sex.

I wouldn't describe toys, anal etc as being 'vanilla'

Vanilla = the whole 'making love' thing. And that has it's place and is wonderful.

Not Vanilla = fucking, and for me that's my whole kinky side. I'm a switch, but I'm a sub to my Sir. That's wonderful too. But that involves things which aren't mainstream or considered the 'norm'.

Anyone looking to explore their kinky side should look up FetLife.