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Oh F*ck! What have I done? [sad]

355 replies

CompletelyShocked · 02/06/2010 08:23

Namechanged for this.

After being treated like shit by men for all of my life, I finally met the man of my dreams 2 years ago on a dating site. He moved in not long after we met, we get on brilliantly, he adores my DD, his family have taken myself and my DD on as their own etc...

Our wedding is all booked for next year in Cyprus, lots of family and friends booked to come with us - brilliant, life couldnt get any better!

Until yesterday, for some reason, I put his old username from the dating site into Google - and up came a Transsexual Dating site. I tried to view the profile of this member on the site but had to register to do so. So I did. There's no name on there but hometown, height, starsign, birthday etc. all match with DP . I then sent him a message from my new account on there just asking how he was doing and why he didnt have any pictures on there. He replied this morning (after getting up for work) that he needed to be discreet and was a bit shy.

I have replied again but he's at work all day so not sure he'll get on to reply (if it is DP!).

I'm pretty sure it is though, my heart is racing. What have I done? What if it is him? How do i bring this up with him? Maybe I shouldn't have snooped? Please help.

OP posts:
StealthPolarBear · 02/06/2010 12:44

he started the "signs your long term relationship is fizzling out" thread
probably hour by hour he'd make more money as a waiter but i'm guessing he gets a kick out of this
reported him

wannaBe · 02/06/2010 12:45

so is he the op here too?

StealthPolarBear · 02/06/2010 12:46

assume so wannabe

dignified · 02/06/2010 12:48

Think he started the stupid baby one too. Gets paid my arse. School holidays isnt it.

StealthPolarBear · 02/06/2010 12:49

stupid baby?

LeninGrad · 02/06/2010 12:54

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CheekyPinkSox · 02/06/2010 12:58

So this is a piss take?!?! Takes the piss, people could be geniuinly needing help one day and because of idiots like that they wont get the positive responses they are looking for.

Grow up and piss off TROLL!

GiraffeYoga · 02/06/2010 12:58

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Amapoleon · 02/06/2010 12:58

I hate this, it stops people replying to genuine threads. Why don't you just piss off and get a life you sad twat!

GiraffeYoga · 02/06/2010 13:01

oh god, what a wanker

CJCregg · 02/06/2010 13:01

Must admit, I read this earlier and thought but didn't want to be so cynical.

Now I just believe in karma - the OP's 'partner' (if he has one) will no doubt be posting on here soon enough about what a waste of skin her OH is, and will find some genuine support. Maybe we should start a support thread for partners of dickhead trolls?

dignified · 02/06/2010 13:03

Yes, " What about the baby " thread thats equally weird.

StealthPolarBear · 02/06/2010 13:04

just seen that, yes

Steve - get a paper round

Hullygully · 02/06/2010 13:09

There is no kudos in trolling when it is a perfectly plausible scenario. As we know, there are plenty of weirdos out there.

It's dull, where are the clever ones?

ShirleyKnot · 02/06/2010 13:09

and the bad date.

DeFluffy · 02/06/2010 13:15

I WANT TO KNOW HOW HE GETS PAID THE SAD FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SleepyCaz · 02/06/2010 13:16

ME TOO!!! Was but now just so (angry)

ShirleyKnot · 02/06/2010 13:16

He doesn't get paid actual money.

He gets paid in dungeon and dragon figurines.

DeFluffy · 02/06/2010 13:17

AND I'M GOING TO SHOUT TILL I FIND OUT!!!!!

DeFluffy · 02/06/2010 13:20

Oh shit, and those World of Warcraft things too? Yeah I can just imagine him and his pasty skin, rubbing his dragons at home. Ick.

MakeMineABellini · 02/06/2010 13:21

I just don't understand why you are getting upset.

I think if it's something as plausible as this then people can actually learn from the decent reponses, really.

MrsMeow · 02/06/2010 13:25

Oh how boring. Does your mother know that you're using the PC?

I fail to see the point in trolling. If I were going to troll a site, I'd make sure it was somewhere I could have a bloody good laugh at the same time. Why troll a relationships forum? Why not the general forum instead?

noddyholder · 02/06/2010 13:40

Why don't MN block this IP

DeFluffy · 02/06/2010 13:42

MakeMineABellini - because this is about the 100th this twat has done this week. It stops real people posting and it stops real people trying to help them. It wastes people's time.

It's also a bit sick, trading in human misery. Nice

CompletelyShocked · 02/06/2010 14:09

I'm sorry, but I'm not Steve (whoever he is).

Trying to think how i can prove i'm a regular - JudgeFlounce, moldies, the lady who caught her husband wanking in the shed with sandpaper, misdee and peter, cvq. I have a few of you on my facebook account too - posieparker being one (who is gorgeous )

Guess whoever Steve is though has now fcuked up my thread and my chances of advice - cheers for that Steve

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