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would you go on a date with this guy?

155 replies

oneorboth · 21/04/2010 18:00

SO I WAS ON a dating site a while ago. spoke to this guy a bit, though he was ok, swapped numbers, within two days he was constantly texting wanting to know where i worked, what i was up to. kept calling me hun (!!!!!) telling me he was dreaming about me.
i did not like it so did not reply and blocked him.

move forward to now. i joined back up to the site and he emailed me straight away. My taste is men is terrible and i very much go for the bad boy bastard type. he is not this type so i thought i would chat to him.
hes still got my number and he is texting all the time. if i dont reply he then texts things like ' have i done something wrong?' or ' have i upset you' and then he would like to see me but he doesnt get his way. and all his texts are just so pesamitic and moody. then he is all gushy and calling me amazing and beautiful and stuff.

but, im trying to be open about people. still i think he is a needly pleb.

i have loosley arranged date with him next week but dont really want to go. i already cancelled one this weekend with him as i coiuldnt be bothered.

then the other day he asked me why i stopped talking to him the other time as he had put in so much groundwork.

man radar is crap right now. but this seems weird to me. or am i the weird one?

and should i meet him for a date? and if i dont how do i tell him no and to leave me alone?

OP posts:
baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:41

Dear dad2chchalk

The fact that you come on hear (a womans site) looking for sympathy, makes me very suspicious. Get help and get a life.

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:42

Dear DearBaluchi

I rest my case.

Regards

baluchi

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:43

it is true that i am projecting my sad existence onto someone else, because i not to get a life

regards

beluchi NOT Beluchi

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:44

i rest my case too

regards

beluchi

BitOfFun · 21/04/2010 23:45

And what are you doing on this site then, balollocks? Given that it is generally populated by kind, intelligent and insightful posters? Genuine question.

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:45

Dear DearBaluchi

As predicted. Lol.

Regards

baluchi

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:46

It's a parenting site. I'm a parent. It makes me sad that you are too. I came for advice (which I got), not sympathy.

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:46

self confessed tosser then, thought as much

kind regards

beluchi

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:47

Dear BitOfFun

Add message | Report | Contact poster By BitOfFun Wed 21-Apr-10 23:45:09
And what are you doing on this site then, balollocks? Given that it is generally populated by kind, intelligent and insightful posters? Genuine question.

I really did choke on that one. I'm guessing the media must have it all wrong then!!

Thanks, that really made me laugh.

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi

NEXT.

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:48

(im talking about beluchi of course)

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:50

hahaha yeah like cos we all believe what the meedja says innit

im so gullible

regards

beluchi

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:51

Dear dad2chchalk

Erm...no, its 'Mumsnet'. Mostly Females, not Males. Unless of course you are a perv.

BTW, thought you were going ages ago. I rest my case.

Regards

baluchi

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:51

He/she spells it gullable.

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:52

oh thats right i can see through your computer to detect if you are M or F

doh

regards

beluchi

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:53

Dear DearBaluchi

Correct, you are so gullable. Run along now. You don't want to miss Jeremy Vile, tomorrow, do you?

Regards

baluchi.

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:55

thats right i we watch it everyday, but its not on until tomorrow morning so i dont need to run along just yet thanks

regards

beluchi

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:56

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:57

That's the second time you've used that pathetic post. I'd get yourself checked out.

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:57

just me and thee i think baluchi

regards

baluchi

BitOfFun · 22/04/2010 00:00

Lol? What's with the maniacal laughter at your own completely unfunny posts? I am concerned for you.

DearBaluchi · 22/04/2010 00:04

cant help myself bitoffun, i am a bit twisted and a sad wanker, which is why i feel the need to come here and project onto nice decent posters

i am a saddo

regards

baluchi

DearBaluchi · 22/04/2010 00:06

but looks like i have got fed up and moved on

so all is well

regards

tosser beluchi

Rindercella · 22/04/2010 00:13

Poor OP will wonder what the hell happened to her thread!

BitOfFun · 22/04/2010 00:23

You're right Rindercella- I'm very sorry, Oneorboth, to have got involved in this ridiculous hijack of your OP. I hope you feel you received some good advice anyway before the troll showed up. Good luck with whatever you decide.

tortoiseonthehalfshell · 22/04/2010 01:13

Gosh, I didn't expect this thread to go this way!

Dad2, you are my hero for your reply about bullying women. Quick work, my friend.

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