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would you go on a date with this guy?

155 replies

oneorboth · 21/04/2010 18:00

SO I WAS ON a dating site a while ago. spoke to this guy a bit, though he was ok, swapped numbers, within two days he was constantly texting wanting to know where i worked, what i was up to. kept calling me hun (!!!!!) telling me he was dreaming about me.
i did not like it so did not reply and blocked him.

move forward to now. i joined back up to the site and he emailed me straight away. My taste is men is terrible and i very much go for the bad boy bastard type. he is not this type so i thought i would chat to him.
hes still got my number and he is texting all the time. if i dont reply he then texts things like ' have i done something wrong?' or ' have i upset you' and then he would like to see me but he doesnt get his way. and all his texts are just so pesamitic and moody. then he is all gushy and calling me amazing and beautiful and stuff.

but, im trying to be open about people. still i think he is a needly pleb.

i have loosley arranged date with him next week but dont really want to go. i already cancelled one this weekend with him as i coiuldnt be bothered.

then the other day he asked me why i stopped talking to him the other time as he had put in so much groundwork.

man radar is crap right now. but this seems weird to me. or am i the weird one?

and should i meet him for a date? and if i dont how do i tell him no and to leave me alone?

OP posts:
baluchi · 21/04/2010 22:39

Dear dad2chchalk

Now it all makes sense, re the mental health bit, that is. Its just that I find it very odd that you are posting on MumsNet. Still, good luck in your quest to get in someones knickers.

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 22:40

Hey, AF, have you checked out the profile?

baluchi · 21/04/2010 22:41

Dear AnyFucker

I see everyones splitting their sides. Ps, have you swapped numbers yet, Lol?

Regards

baluchi

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 22:43

I have broad shoulders Bolshy. I expect you do as well.

baluchi · 21/04/2010 22:43

Dear BelleDeChocolateFluffyBun.

All very sad. I rest my case.

Regards

baluchi

Rindercella · 21/04/2010 22:44

Belle, I have If I hadn't given birth a very few short weeks ago, wasn't knackered, hormonal and feeling crap (oh and having a very gorgeous DH of course )I may very well have attempted to take whathisname's advice

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 22:44

Why do you write that way baluchi? Why the Dear and the Regards? This isn't the royal mail.

baluchi · 21/04/2010 22:45

Dear dad2chchalk

I have enjoyed the banter.

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 22:45

I think they make you write politely in Broadmoor

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 22:45

It's shocking Rind, simply shocking!

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 22:47

or Rampton dad2chchalk (mwuhahaha)

baluchi · 21/04/2010 22:47

Dear BelleDeChocolateFluffyBun

I was brought up to have manners.

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 22:48

Dear Bluto. I have too, I could be racked off that you've attempted to find humour in the fact that my little boy's mum is dying from Alzheimers in her early 30's, but hey, whatever floats your boat.

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 22:49

Manners are all well and good in the real world and on other sites, I can't see alot of manners on here though can you? It's refreshing!

baluchi · 21/04/2010 22:50

Dear dad2chchalk

I'm in Ashworth NOT Broadmoor.

Ps, your plan is going well.

Pps, me head hurts.

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 22:50

There's always people around if you need some support dad2chchalk.

baluchi · 21/04/2010 22:53

Dear dad2chchalk

Like it, the sympathy vote, that is. Please, get a real life. You can convince alot on here, not me. We all know you are a 24 stone trucker from Dudley, really.

Regards

baluchi

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 22:55

That's actually quite nasty baluchi, you know nothing about dad2chchalk's life. Now's time for you to turn your computer off and go to bed,

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 22:55

If you think for one moment I am going to bite, you're very much mistaken. I have more to worry about than your misguided rantings....but hey if I can provide you some entertainment for you, it at least keeps you out of the fridge for five minutes

baluchi · 21/04/2010 22:55

Dear BelleDeChocolateFluffyBun

Oh dear. Are you really so gullable. Lol.

Regards

baluchi

BitOfFun · 21/04/2010 22:58

Baluchi- are you new, or a namechanger?

I'm finding the format of your posts a bit affected, tbh. Up to you though, I guess- but trying to stick out so much when you aren't saying anything particularly funny or clever seems a mistake to me. Friendly advice.

baluchi · 21/04/2010 22:59

Dear BelleDeChocolateFluffyBun

Sorry. Repeat after me, naughty naughty baluchi. That bloke is a very sad perv, can you really not see that?

Regards

baluchi NOT baluchi

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 22:59

At least she can spell

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:01

Dear BitOfFun

Whether I am funny or not is a matter of opinion.

Regards

baluchi

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:02

Dear dad2chchalk

Oh dear. I can't spell. Well done. I'm glad that makes you feal superior.

Regards

baluchi

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