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Original poster

would you go on a date with this guy?

155 replies

oneorboth · 21/04/2010 18:00

SO I WAS ON a dating site a while ago. spoke to this guy a bit, though he was ok, swapped numbers, within two days he was constantly texting wanting to know where i worked, what i was up to. kept calling me hun (!!!!!) telling me he was dreaming about me.
i did not like it so did not reply and blocked him.

move forward to now. i joined back up to the site and he emailed me straight away. My taste is men is terrible and i very much go for the bad boy bastard type. he is not this type so i thought i would chat to him.
hes still got my number and he is texting all the time. if i dont reply he then texts things like ' have i done something wrong?' or ' have i upset you' and then he would like to see me but he doesnt get his way. and all his texts are just so pesamitic and moody. then he is all gushy and calling me amazing and beautiful and stuff.

but, im trying to be open about people. still i think he is a needly pleb.

i have loosley arranged date with him next week but dont really want to go. i already cancelled one this weekend with him as i coiuldnt be bothered.

then the other day he asked me why i stopped talking to him the other time as he had put in so much groundwork.

man radar is crap right now. but this seems weird to me. or am i the weird one?

and should i meet him for a date? and if i dont how do i tell him no and to leave me alone?

OP posts:
BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 23:05

You're odd baluchi so I shall leave you to wallow in whatever world it is you live in.

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:08

OK bolucki, which am I? Bully, Liar, Superior, Pervert or Obese? If I'm all 5, I suspect I'm actually John Prescott. And I really don't want to be him, so I guess you win. Night night. I hope you manage to leave the house tomorrow without having to call the Fire Brigade x

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:10

Dear BelleDeChocolateFluffyBun

Thank God i'm only odd!!. You my dear are odd, sad and desperate. BTW, has the 'Director' made contact with you yet?

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi NEXT.

Rindercella · 21/04/2010 23:11

Once again, lol @ dad2. "Bully, Liar, Superior, Pervert or Obese? If I'm all 5, I suspect I'm actually John Prescott" should be quote of the week imo.

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:12

She's a bit weird isn't she???!

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:13

Dear dad2chchalk

Thanks. You should have known me two years ago.

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi

PS, does your Mrs know your on here chatting up birds?

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 23:13
Grin
baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:15

Dear Rindercella

Oh dear. It will all end in tears you know. Are you really so desperate?

Regards

baluchi

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:21

do fuck off

regards

myself

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:22

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baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:24

Dear dad2chchalk

Please forgive me, but why exactly are you posting on a 'womans'site? I find that most strange. The fact that you have managed to get 'most' women on side, isn't surprising, given that the majority on here are bored STAH house wives. But, lets get one thing clear, you don't fool everyone.

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 23:24

The internet attracts all sorts, it gives a voice to those who have none. They can just sit, read and tap away a response without a thought for the person that reads their shite.

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:25

'do fuck off

regards

myself'

I just laughed so much I think a little bit of wee may have come out

TerryWogansCock · 21/04/2010 23:25

its a parenting site moron

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:27

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dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:28

That's too far. Reported.

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:29

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BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 23:30

Already done dad2.
Shame on you baluchi!

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:31

Dear dad2chchalk

Lol. Out of your depth, heh.

Regards

baluchi

Rindercella · 21/04/2010 23:31

Outrageous.

TerryWogansCock · 21/04/2010 23:32

Dear TerryWogansCock

oh you are looking good these days, if i do say so myself

regards

yourself

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:32

I spent an hour earlier, on the phone to my friend who recommended this site. I thanked her for the tip, because all the advice I got on my original post was inspiring and gave me the courage to do the 'right thing'. Which I've now done, and I feel like a whole weight has been lifted. So, baluchi, you won't piss me off. I'm smiling at your sadness to be honest. In a twisted way, it makes me feel good that there;s someone out there in a worse place than me. You.

Get help

baluchi · 21/04/2010 23:36

Dear dad2chchalk

Glad I could be of some help.

Is this really the type of dating site you want?

Regards

baluchi NOT Baluchi

dad2chchalk · 21/04/2010 23:38

Does this make you wet, being such a twisted person!? Although I'm beginning to doubt your gender.

DearBaluchi · 21/04/2010 23:40

i really must have a word with myself and get me some help

dad2chchalk is right, i am twisted and sick

regards

baluchi not Baluchi