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sex dilemma

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sophie69 · 23/02/2010 00:11

Hi everyone,

I am a married parent so is simply so lonely. I met a married man recently and his is just adorable. He listens to me, is affectionate, is a gentleman. We talked about our lives and our partners and both miss a sex life. We both want the same thing- to enjoy each other maybe once a week, but remain in our relationships. He is unselfish and just wants to satisfy me, which is so refreshing and new.

I am just so tempted to say yes and enjoy an afternoon of love making. It has been so long and and i dearly want to be help and to experience some fun. He has offered to make it all about me- I can control him and use him for my pleasure.

He really is a sweetie and a gentleman and I just want him so badly. Am I a bad girl for wanting this so so much?

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Malificence · 25/02/2010 12:24

emmabm, the OP is long gone, probably trolling and upsetting people somewhere else.

We've just carried the thread on as general opinions on sexless marriage and cheating .

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emmabemmasmom · 25/02/2010 12:31

Oh god just read more and honestly it is making me feel so sad and sick bleh

Just wanted to add:

karmann

Not to get to personal but I have been through this too. I took him back and I also don't want to feel like a fool. It was not to long ago but things like this post get to me as well which is why I felt compelled to say something.
The first thing I wrote was not a good thing to post and I rewrote it a few times but believe me I wanted to say so much more. I also hope that one day things like this won't bring it all back but you sound as if you are on the right road so keep it up.

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emmabemmasmom · 25/02/2010 12:34

Thank you mal

I was reading quickly while I had a few min between waking/sleeping babies and felt the need to write! Now I have read more and I see. I think maybe I should stay clear of these threads for a little bit more...

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SuSylvester · 25/02/2010 14:11

yes it can do.
certainly in one close to me it did.
he managed to haev sex with o/w/ andnag wife a lot.
both ended up with VD

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WhenwillIfeelnormal · 25/02/2010 14:29

emmabemma come on over to the wwifn thread if you need support. It certainly won't have helped you reading this OP's nonsense.

Ineedabodytransplant it's so good to hear from a man and I've got the utmost respect for your stance. Hope you'll seek support too.

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