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133 replies

Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 15:27

Just need to let off some angst here

I got dumped by a shithead man a few days ago

It's my birthday today, we were supposed to be spending it doing something together, time booked off etc

Instead, I'm plain old wallowing.

Please snap me out of it

Feel better for just writing it down

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Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 15:30

Sorry, I wrote the title before I wrote the thing.

Didn't mean anyone to snap me out of it, I stand by 'please ignore'

Feel better for writing it down

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nickytwotimes · 22/12/2009 15:31

Aaw, happy birthday anyway.

What a plonker of a man!

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 22/12/2009 15:31

awww, you are entitled to have a wallow

if it were me, I would be wallowing in a vat of wine !

happy birthday, anyway

can you do something nice for yourself later ?

box of Thorntons, DVD (not a romance....), glass of wine...

Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 15:35

Have got a bottle of wine with one glass full left in it. Polised the rest off last night.

I look too hideous (been crying) to leave the house to get more. Tis shit.

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drlovesmincepies · 22/12/2009 15:35

i cant ignore you Katiekitty. (i know very un-mn) its shit being dumped, but he clearly couldnt see how great you are . Happy Birthday ! get your mates round and celebrate !

Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 15:37

Can't see anything worth celebrating to be honest

(wallow, wallow)

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YouKnowStuffingIsForLunch · 22/12/2009 15:37

Wallow away. Happy Birthday. You're too good for him anyway.

cornysxmasmuffmusic · 22/12/2009 15:37

what a twat - you're better off without him as he is clearly an idiot. No alcohol at all in the house...?

VanillaSliceSliceBaby · 22/12/2009 15:38

Wallow away - with wine and fags if you smoke - can you borrow the ear of a good friend who will patiently nod and say what a wanker, his loss, fuck him, you will be better off and he will suffer off in the long run?
that's what I would prescribe anyway

ps hope you meet someone soon with a bigger willy who knows exactly what to do with it AND is god with cuddles and compliments but in a generally manly could rescue you from choppy seas if it came to i kind of a way

Think of this birthday as being an onwards and upwards kind of a watershed.

Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 15:38

Just one glass of wine

Probably a chartreuse liqueur chocolate in the cupboard

Shit or what?

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Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 15:40

Vanilla - that's made me sob even more!

I am hopeless

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cornysxmasmuffmusic · 22/12/2009 15:40

Is there anyone who can do a bit of shopping for you?

nickytwotimes · 22/12/2009 15:41

You shouldn't be alone when recently single-fied.

Get a pal or two round if at all possible.

Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 15:41

Corny - I would happily pay someone to bring me round some wine, some twiglets and some dairy milk.

There's no one

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drlovesmincepies · 22/12/2009 15:41

not very pc,but very funy .
hope this cheers you up a bit ..... warning contains cartoon violence .

Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 15:44

Nicky - everyone is really busy with christmas stuff, ,I just can't burden myself on them. Last thing they need.

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cornysxmasmuffmusic · 22/12/2009 15:45

how far is the shop? Just wear a big hood or something

Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 15:47

I'd need a bag over my head

It's maybe do-able. Maybe a festive bag or something?

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drlovesmincepies · 22/12/2009 15:57

its not working .why cant i do links right?

cornysxmasmuffmusic · 22/12/2009 15:58

yes a festive bag with a bit of tinsel on will do the trick

drlovesmincepies · 22/12/2009 16:02

here , better than wallowing

drlovesmincepies · 22/12/2009 16:07

aargh still not working ! i give up

Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 16:29

Don't worry Drloves, I like the sentiment on the link.. maybe I can find it if I google it?

Good news is, I gave myself a stern talking to and went to the shop. Hat on. Scarf tied round. Didn't see anyone I know, made no eye contact with anyone.

I have a bottle of wine, chiled.

And I got myself a bunch of flowers too.

Fucking shithead may make me feel bad, but I can at least cheer myself up.

Just off to empty the other glass of wine (residual from yesterday)...

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drlovesmincepies · 22/12/2009 16:45

thats the spirit katiekitty ! red or white ?

Katiekitty · 22/12/2009 16:51

Oh my fucking god! Just poured the last of yesterday's wine (white) and dropped the sodding glass of it! Why? Why?

Shit

New bottle is a pushing the boat out Chablis. Cost me £9.99 better be good.

I don't really care - might as well be Thunderbird.

(I do care really, just feeling down on the world)

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