NAB3 -I've thought long and hard over the past couple of weeks whether or not to post on your threads but so far have decided not to. Until now...
Over the past month I have been to hell and back.
My DP had an emotional affair (for want of a better expression) via text/mobile/email. This was with an ex from his past.
A lot of similarities with your situation -at first I wondered if you were the OW and I was the DP of the man you are posting about ! (thankfully you're not )
Anyway, like I said I have been to hell and back. Our children came within a hairs breadth of losing their home, their family and their lives as they know it. I nearly became a single parent. All a week before Xmas.
All this was because of a relationship from the past that should stay in the past. A relationship that for the sake of the 2 families and 4 children involved should be forgotten about.
Please think before you email/text/phone this man again. Your actions could destroy your families.
I'm sorry if I sound harsh but I've been on the receiving end of the consequences of such actions and its not nice.
DP and I are working bloody hard to rebuild our lives. The man you talk about may be trying to do the same within his family.
I couldn't stand it if the OW contacted my DP again -after all that could be the beginning of the end of our family.
As I said before I've not commented on your threads before but I really feel that I need to tell you what it could be like for the other parties involved.