thats bullshit - and you know it is
you are at a stage wher e you want to believe everything he says.
but the thing is - its gonna hit you like a drip drip drip effect - the things he has done the lies, the recipts, where was he on the x of oct, when he said he was in xxx?
hindsight will but be banging constantly at your door and all the little things will come together
and you will think things like
what if - i hadn't caught him
does he really love her
does a woman really love him THIS much - with no sex?
is sedx the cruz of the matter here? was it the lies and the deceipt
was it that he did it at all
was it that he got found out
was it that he didnt own up
was it the fact that he just fucked up your lives.
was it that he thinks you are stupid.
a man abroad in another country - he didn't pick her up in a bar
this has been something that has been going on for a while - clearly.
but he didn't fuck her?
he thinks your a bit thick.
and then you think to yourself - how dare he fuck this girl in a nother country and try to tell me lie after lie after lie
i don't know the numnber
ok i do - she's a loon
no, she is fixated, it was entrapment
she wants money
no dont phone her, dont check
ok shit, errr it was a thing
platonic
ok - thas not going to fly...right...ok then i tried to fuck her but i was drunk.
Phew lets hope that does it - plausible, and lets hope that she forgets thatthis wasn't a one night stand in a a bar but this is a woman that is clearly very emotionally invested.
he is a lying cocksucking scumbag shithead that has been caught.
make sure of your position boith with health and finances.
give yourself time to think things through to put the pieces together.
if you have the space and the finances - ask him to leave for a while - i would.