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There We Are Then - part 5. Dickswinging with a cocktail sausage continues 🤣

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mummy917 · 14/10/2026 16:01

Follow on from the last thread xx

OP posts:
DuckbilledSplatterPuff · Today 10:05

WearyAuldWumman · Yesterday 23:31

Seconded.

Thirded

Bobcurlygirl · Today 10:22

I don't think anyone is suggesting op must never have another relationship, the poster was suggesting waiting until after the divorce is through as he would use it to sling mud.
Twatoo can only see his point of view and so far things haven't gone his way so much so he will look for any excuse to make Ops life harder. Yes this could continue post divorce but it will be harder for him and he can't delay the divorce if it's complete. Remember op is due money for beds etc. Twatoo will likely be upset by being ordered to pay his share.
Op has come so far.. The finish line is in sight so get over that and reassess. This is meant with kindness.

LastOnePlease · Today 11:15

DwarfPalmetto · Today 08:19

Ah @mummy917 enjoy your fancy knickers and your work flirtation.

What all this indicates to me is that you are more relaxed and happy in yourself and less weighed down by the bad behaviour of Twatoo. You are doing so well!

Absolutely!

dobedowaaaa · Today 12:35

DuckbilledSplatterPuff · Today 10:05

Thirded

fourthded - maybe its TWATOO who is the pathetic troll?!!

WiddlinDiddlin · Today 13:17

WhistPie · Yesterday 23:10

What's more important:

Getting your end away

or

Your children

?

Bloody nora - she's having some fun flirting with a safe, known person, and buying fancy knickers to feel nice.

She's not yeeted the kids into space so she can go on a month long shag-a-thon in Clacton on Sea, or moved in some twit from OLD to be their brand new Daddy after 1 date!

You seriously need to get a grip!

mummy917 · Today 13:40

I did wonder if it was There We Are Then himself but he’d not go to the trouble of being behind a screen to be a dickhead to me 🤣

OP posts:
Goaliestar · Today 13:53

Of course no one isn't suggesting that OP might not meet someone in the nearish future.

Just getting her divorce out of the way might be in HER best interests.

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