You know, it’s easy to get caught up worrying about the practical side of things – especially when you’ve worked hard and got responsibilities. But sometimes, if you’re not careful, you can end up letting the numbers on a bank statement mean more than what’s actually in front of you.
This fella, by the sound of it, has been there for you, made you feel comfortable, and shown you a lot of care. That’s not something you find every day, especially after what you’ve been through. It’s not nothing, is it? Plenty of people with tidy finances can still leave you feeling cold and alone.
Yeah, he’s got his money troubles, and maybe he’s not been the most open about it, but everyone’s got their own baggage. Life doesn’t always go to plan, and sometimes folk end up in a mess through no real fault of their own. If you look at just his debts and not the man himself, you might be missing out on something real – someone who’s actually there for you, who makes you laugh, who’s got your back in ways money can’t buy.
End of the day, it’s your call. But don’t be too hard on him – or yourself – for not having it all mapped out. Sometimes the best things in life come when you take a chance, not when you play it safe. Love’s not about spreadsheets and pensions, it’s about finding someone who makes the hard days easier. Just something to think about before you walk away.