My husband and I had a huge argument, he walked out and left me. I went to a friend's house for drinks then we went into town.
I was in Manchester and not from the area. I lost my friend and was very very drunk. I stupidly went with a man to what I thought was a party but turned put to just be his university room.
I should have left but he told me that his housemates wouldn't be long. We never kissed we never flirted he told me he was gay.
We were just talking sat on his bed I never felt threatened at all but then I felt woozy and lay down, I thought he was asleep next to me. It wa a big bed we weren't touching.
Next thing I woke up to him having sex with me, it was pitch black but I was definitely asleep. I froze. I panicked. I don't know why I didn't stop him but I was just paralysed. He definitely didn't know I woke up. I lay there utterly shocked and disgusted until it went light then got out to safety.
I did not consent. I did not want to sleep with him. He didn't act interested at all we had no physical contact yp until that point.
I called the police the next day from my sisters house. The case is ongoing.
My husband said it is all my fault. He won't sleep next to me he made me reimclact it and called me a slag and a whore. He said I let him f*ck me and I wanted it. He said I deserved it and I am a cheat.
AIBU for wanting him to support me?