Blocked after an intimate video call and now I'm panicking

[Worriedashell84]

So I got talking to a foreign guy on a dating site 2 weeks ago, a mixture of video calls and phone calls. There was never anything sexual the whole 2 weeks and in fact we were talking about lots of different things, like music , the meaning of life etc. He never once tried to get me to take my top off or anything the whole time. We were chatting most days as well.
However in the last video call, a couple of nights ago, things turned sexual. The app we used is end to end encrypted however in hindsight I'm now panicking that he video recorded it or has screenshotted stuff, especially now that he has blocked me.
I never took my bra or pants off , but I did show him my breasts a bit with my bra on ( I tried not to show my face in that but I can't be sure) and I did show my hand touching underneath my underwear a bit but obviously my face isn't in it.

At most there might be a picture of me with my bra on but showing my breasts and I also didn't show them both at the one time, if he has screenshotted that part.
I should say he was very aroused during the call and actually came during it. He also showed himself down there fully erect and coming. (Sorry if tmi, just trying to get all context in)
If it's a case where he realizes he just didn't fancy me and has blocked me, then fine, I can deal with that.
But if he has screenshotted stuff or recorded anything then yes I would be a bit worried.
So my question is am I jumping to conclusions and panicking needlessly? Would you be worried about this?

I only realized I was blocked today which was 2 days after the call. I can't believe how stupid I've been, I actually liked the guy.
I think the fact that he never tried to make things sexual for the whole 2 weeks made me trust him and actually it was sort of me who initiated it in the last call as I really fancied him. He also works in IT which makes me worry more as he is IT savvy.
I am never ever doing an intimate video call with anyone ever again.

So should I just forget about this awful judgement call and vow to never do anything like this again or should I actually be worried?
I think the fact that he has blocked me has made me think he has done or is doing something sinister.
Sorry for the ramble,, I'm just actually panicking this morning

They might be able to get away with more "non Muslim" behaviour in public... But I'd say it's still unusual in the extreme for them to ever be atheist or ever admit to it if they are.

I have no idea what the penalty would be for am Emirati to openly sat they are atheist.

What they believe privately and what parts of their religion they cherry pick in their behaviour esp behaviour away from home/one etc is what I was referring to.

You need to google and watch people like Kitboga (like another poster said). I’m sorry it really seems like a scam. They get you to do “naughty” things and then threaten to send those videos/images to your family ect if you don’t pay them money. People have literally killed themselves because of the abuse that these people do. Please watch videos by Kitboga, Jim browning ect and keep caution

28 yr old Brits are equally fond of sex with 40 yr old women ..... Try being a 40 yr old woman on dating or hook up sites.

(Again, not for relationships).

They do not have the financial or immigration motivations however.

Oh for gods sake!

Dont block him op, if you’re happy chatting with him, you’re not believeing everything he tells you or giving him money then theres no harm!

Have you tried the reverse Google image thing..at least then you would know he was who he says he is. Haven't read the ft so apologies if someone already suggested this.

I'm sure she hasn't blocked him at all.

There is harm. He’s collecting information about her that he and other scammers will use to scam her in other ways.

And ‘he’ probably doesn’t even exist anyway

Hi OP, what are you doing engaging with someone in Morocco on a dating app? Unless he lives in your city and but there on holidays why would you give your precious energy to someone you are not going to meet IRL?

Well of course he exists, she watched him masturbate.

Yeah I still don't get the appeal. If the fact that I don't get my tits out for a random on the internet on camera after two weeks makes me a nun then I will happily wear that badge.

Of course, Then she should aim there, less chance of a scam and plenty of swarthy men, she certainly doesn’t need someone in Morocco.

And that’s the man in the photos is it? Or it’s another penis and AI?
She has absolutely no idea who she’s talking to

Just heard that the taliban have brought back stoning women accused of adultery. However, on mumsnet, it's a ''worryingly high level of Islamaphobia'' to remind a British woman that it's unlikely a muslim man raised in Morocco considers her his equal. If you remind her to be careful and raise her bar and be alert to requests for money, that's not caution or concern, no.

Funnily enough, Muslim men are allowed to hiss at British women, denigrate and judge western women for drinking, having had relationships, but Western women aren't allowed to remind each other in a sisterly way, hey, be careful, this guy is not looking for the same as you. You have not got ''so much in common''. Because that's islamaphobia. Mumsnet told the poster who created the thread about Islamaphobia to report any post she felt was islamaphobic. So this might be gone soon.

If he had video recorded you there would have been no need to screenshot.

I think him screenshotting is proof there is no video.

He's probably embarrassed and angry with himself, woke up in the morning, deleted everything he had and blocked you.

You really don't read posts, do you?

It was one tit.

😂

If you don't get the appeal of watching a very handsome man who's just your type and who you've been getting to know masturbating, well - different strokes for different folks (pun intended).

Noone did it makes you a nun to not get your tits out during a cam "sex" session ...... It's the being so shocked and derogatory and bitchy about another woman doing it, in the context of a sexy video call with a bloke she fancies the ass off, that made me wonder if nuns had invaded MN.
It's very surprising experienced women would be so surprised or judgemental about that.

As I said above, it's a joke because I'm sure many many women in here have done much much more with blokes they barely knew on drunken nights out/freshers week/party holidays etc etc.

🤣

Be very wary, sounds like soon he’s going to be asking you for money, to help him with medical costs for his sick father, as got scam written all over it!

I think people can be very naive. 2 weeks is no time and you've never met this person. You're making yourself vulnerable in so many ways. Put your guard up.

play along! ''snap! we have SO much in common! MY dad is in hospital too''

Along with a random photo of an old man in bed taken from Google

Dad in hospital? He’s a scammer. He’s about to launch a sob story scam

@Xenoi24
It was one tit. 😂

Ah right now I understand what's happened on this thread - sockpuppeting. I'll leave you to it.

She’s been told this since page one but apparently she’s too attractive and slim to be scammed and we’re all just a bunch of prudish nuns for warning her

There is nobody age 40 who looks early 30s.

Of course there is lol

Anyone who criticises me is a sock puppet!!

Lazy lazy lazy.