He punched me in the face, I dialled 999

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He suddenly went into his mood and flipped. I went upstairs with the children. He followed me up after 5mins even though he just said he wants to be left alone. I told him to go downstairs he refused and told me to fuck off. I told him I've had enough of everything, I had enough of his bullshit treatment towards me, he kept saying stfu, or I'll punch you in the mouth. I just snapped and said you dare and I'll call the police. He kept saying stfu as I was speaking then smacked/punched my mouth.i began crying and dialled 999, I could hear the lady saying hello but I never spoke. She could hear me crying. I cut the call. I never thought I'd call them CZ I've just been too afraid of aftermath. Its been happening for 6 years, I've put up with his crap and something just made me dial 999, physically and mentally I'm shitting down I cant take the crap

What will happen next ? got 3 private calls since i dialling it. But havnt picked up

Ring them again. Don't back down now has he been drinking? Did the children witness it?

Hopefully they'll send some officers to your location to check on you, but I don't actually know.

You don't have to put up with this. I hope you decide you can leave. I'm sorry you're living with this.

Please call them back and get help.
You deserve a life of peace, without a violent, cruel man in it.
I wasted ten years with a violent man. Don't be me. Get away from him and start a new life.

Call . You and your children are in danger. Call NOW

Yes ring them back and tell them what has happened and that you're still in the house with him. Women's Aid can also help you.
You've been really brave ringing for help. Now the next job is to get the help to come to you. You can do this.

You can just say one word. …’ help ‘ and they will come

please call

Textphone 0800 112 999

I once accidentally called 999 and got three call backs while I was asleep so didn't realise but nothing happened after. I hope they manage to send someone out to you if she heard you crying though.

I would call them back though and tell them what has happened. He shouldn't get away with what he's done and you and the kids can't be around someone like that.

I hope you are okay.

And please keep posting so we know you're still there.

Phone 999

take the first step and just said he’s punched me in the face can you come?

you are a lovely strong lady and worth so much more you deserve peace love and kindness - please dial wishing you that amazing strength you have deep down to the surface to make the call xx

Call them back. You have been amazing just calling them tonight, the first step is always the hardest. You can do it again

You don’t have to live like this

Just call 999 again and say Help.

Where is he now? Can you call them back and they will make sure you are safe?

I’m sorry. I understand you are scared of the aftermath, but the aftermath of leaving your children in a violent home witnessing domestic abuse could be far worse, they are likely to have far worse outcomes in the future if they continue to grow up witnessing this and feeling scared in their own home. The aftermath of dealing with your children’s potential future mental health problems, difficulties at school etc will be far harder than the aftermath of leaving an abusive relationship as soon as you can. Sorry if that’s hard to hear but you need to leave for the sake of your children who have no choice in this, is this the childhood they deserve? What kind of future do you want them to have?

Previous Emergency Response Caller here
If you call 999 they log it. Yours was a emergency but put phone down. They will call you back. They will try quite a few times. Depending on the emergency they WILL send an ambulance.

Phone them
Back.. you can do this

Police op. Make a statement and follow it through. If he takes you to family court. You need this evidence. Trust me xxxx get him away from you and your children

Phone 999 again or text them you and your children deserve more than this

Call the police again and report it op. You need to do this op to be free

The private calls will be the Police trying to reach you.

Hope you are ok and sage OP

I worked for the Emergency Response.
If we got any phone calls of abuse, self harm we put an instant response to Ambulance in the area. We also phoned back. The people who are phoning you are trying to help you.

I hope you are okay. Unless you call them back or answer the calls then everyone will be worrying about you. Now is the time to be brave and protect yourself and the children.