Views on Andrew Tate?

[Uktousa2022]

For those who have actually watched his videos etc. Could you actually be with someone like that?

Are you the poster who's doing a trial living period with a man who wants to "look after you" (even though it seems like he can't afford to) in return for you accepting his authority in everything?

He's a weed addict who can apparently stop anytime he wants (but chooses not to) and has kept a dog that's killed another dog around you and your small dogs.

His judgement is fucked but he believes vehemently that he's entitled to a d worthy to be in authority over his partner and potential family.

Some other posters also seemed to be saying a previous post suggested he had been violent too.

I knew his opinions were coming from some MRA red pill chauvanist fucked up nonsense he's taking in, this is just further proof of that.

Youve been advised to leave the "trial" and move back, or to whatever you would like to. If it's the same poster, I'm not sure why you keep staying and asking for people on here to state the obvious.

Do you think he's your last chance for kids or something?

Tate is a vile misogynistic prick and I wouldn't want to have anything to do with anyone who admired him in any way. My son is in his early 20s and he says his mates all think Tate is an absolute fool, they say it's only stupid little kids that admire him. I wish that were true, unfortunately, a lot of thickie adult males do too. Thankfully most sensible women realise this is a massive red flag and avoid these men at all costs. Maybe you should think about that.

It is weird though because he disguises it (and quite well) as oh woman are should be put on a pedestal they should not have to work men should provide and protect and pay the bills and the woman should just take care of the house and the kids and listen and be guided by her man - but at what cost? to be a puppet?

Oh fuck off. I'm fed up of the "arsehole so must be autistic" narrative that prevaded mumsnet.

I think thats a good way of looking at it - the point is they are taking away a womans choice. The men take all the 'stress' and 'protect' the family - I mean even single men would have to go to work though, no? Just seems an excuse to have a women do absolutely everything aside from go to work.

Hmm but wouldn't single men have to go to work and pay his own bills anyway? Are they really doing it 'for the family' and comparing it to going to war and dying for the family (which some do) seems very extreme. Its lovely that he says men should carry the stress and women need to be the piece and support and love at home - but I question at what cost this comes at. It sounds more like a systamatic set up - not a loving relationship

My nephews said he is misrepresented by the media and that he is quite inspiring to the next generation of young men.

I was shocked! They are naice intelligent lads, from a liberal and stable family background.

They insisted he makes a lot of sense to guys their age and he ’gets it’. Where have we gone wrong??

*nice… Typo !

Are you being tongue in cheek? Do you really agree with that guff?

@HeyAliceYoucool - then they aren't that naice are they?

Tate is aggressive. He talks about violence and is apparently violent himself. Young men or indeed any man who says he's a role model is really giving themselves permission to be violent or think in that way.

Stable man understand that they control themselves. Inadequate people look to control others.

I assume boys who like him always viewed women as sub human, support beings.

I assume women are innocent or are suicidal if they go near a rotten scank man whore.

A woman said that she lost consciousness and came back with him pumping away inside her like a blow up doll after he strangled her, he sounds like he has ejaculation addiction issues on top of others.

He thinks all women are weak, reliant on men financially and incapable of being independent.

I would LOVE to see him sit down with J K Rowling.

"Andrew Tate once called his sexually explicit webcam business a “total scam” and boasted on his website that he lured women in by getting them to fall in love with him. The 36-year-old influencer also boasted on a podcast that he broke a woman’s jaw in a bar fight and “got away with it.”"

I think I'd pass on Andrew Tate's style of "looking after" women.

@OrangeAutumn - then he's a criminal sex offender who needs prison

The way he talks reminds me of someone I knew and you see it on TOWIE, really fast, aggressive with a frown. There is something wrong with people like that. If his Dad has a NPD dx, that would explain many things.

He's a nut job.

If only he'd had an accident in the MMA ring - or whatever tf it was he did - instead of women around him having "accidents" with their bones.

OP plans to move herself and her two dogs to america to be impregnated by a killer pitbull owning thick-as-shite misogynist she met in September.🥴

It's ok.

He's going to "look after her" and that makes her feel all fuzzy.

So far his "looking after her" exhaling weed smoke, refusing to re-home his dog killing dog (and she had two all dogs), saying he plans to have it around their kids (because it will know them from birth and therefore be safe around them), and outlining how she's to respect and defer to him. He also appears to be telling her they can't actually afford for her to give up work.

Inadequate people look to control others.

Many influencer types are inadequate, you see it with politicians too, they have no control of themselves, they seem to lack an inner voice like a normal person that helps you regulate and everything they say about others is actually about them.

*and she has two small dogs

Controlling people are inadequate end of. Tate is one of those, and so are his fans. They will use their physical strength to push women about.

It's so simple that you can see it from SPACE

Op are you still there with him?

How many hundreds of posts advising you to leave do you want?

Why do you keep starting threads about aspects of his beliefs without giving the very relevant background about his behaviour and circumstances?

We can't come and remove you from his apartment or whatever in the US? What do you want us to do.

Literally noone has said they think you should stay in a relationship with him.

Yes they are. What normal person would bother to do this?

They might be 'naice' but their beliefs definitely aren't actually nice. If they were from a rougher background and shared those same beliefs I bet you'd think they were little arseholes. Middle class misogynists are still misogynists.

I’m staying with my brother who lives 30 minutes from him after the advice from the posters.