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Thisisworsethananticpated · 18/02/2023 13:40
LaBaby72 · 18/02/2023 22:59
Can I join this thread, I’m just dipping my toe in the water eating again and have one lined up for tomorrow night - is that what you class as a potential iron?!
Definitelycross · 18/02/2023 22:32
Hello 👋
I'm off the apps for now. Had a message last night from a guy I've been chatting to for ages. We are over 3 hours away from each other.
But he said something that I took great exception to (context wasn't right - that is we were having a normal conversation and he went OTT sexual) so I've blocked him now too.
I've deleted all my previous irons numbers and conversations and it feels good.
Not sure how long it'll last but I feel 100 times better just now.
I'll probably end up alone with 200 cats but I'm really trying to keep that self esteem high.
LuckyLinda3 · 19/02/2023 18:09
Hello all 🖐. Have been thinking some more about our sex issue after an incident this morning. We were at a party last night and it was a late one. This morning we were being intimate and I couldnt help but notice that he wasnt really hard enough. We lay cuddling and I didn't mention anything but im starting to wonder as we really didnt have this issue before. He is 53 and I know has had a very stressful week, issue with one of his sons, and has had 2 nights out drinking this weekend. I'm not sure if I should broach the issue again or what to say. I've even started to become a little paranoid even though I know I have no reason to. I want to be sensitive and respectful in any event. Any suggestions??
LuckyLinda3 · 19/02/2023 18:09
Hello all 🖐. Have been thinking some more about our sex issue after an incident this morning. We were at a party last night and it was a late one. This morning we were being intimate and I couldnt help but notice that he wasnt really hard enough. We lay cuddling and I didn't mention anything but im starting to wonder as we really didnt have this issue before. He is 53 and I know has had a very stressful week, issue with one of his sons, and has had 2 nights out drinking this weekend. I'm not sure if I should broach the issue again or what to say. I've even started to become a little paranoid even though I know I have no reason to. I want to be sensitive and respectful in any event. Any suggestions??
LuckyLinda3 · 19/02/2023 18:09
Hello all 🖐. Have been thinking some more about our sex issue after an incident this morning. We were at a party last night and it was a late one. This morning we were being intimate and I couldnt help but notice that he wasnt really hard enough. We lay cuddling and I didn't mention anything but im starting to wonder as we really didnt have this issue before. He is 53 and I know has had a very stressful week, issue with one of his sons, and has had 2 nights out drinking this weekend. I'm not sure if I should broach the issue again or what to say. I've even started to become a little paranoid even though I know I have no reason to. I want to be sensitive and respectful in any event. Any suggestions??
OnceRuralNowUrbanbliss · 19/02/2023 22:21
Thanks for the new thread @Thisisworsethananticpated 🙏
Glad your are enjoying your OLD detox @Definitelycross
That's interesting to know @Mila14 how long it was before MrEx met your kids (ages!)
Hope you have had a good weekend @Eeksteek whichever decision you made re MrPottery sleepover or not.
I'm not long back from a heavenly 24 hours with MrMaker. Most spent in bed but pub lunch and a walk too. We are 10000000% in love with each other. I met his sibling. He still appears to be my doppelgänger in a male body and thinks I'm lush.
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