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Would you date a man shorter than you?

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livingthesimplelife · 03/01/2023 22:46

Just that really - was having a discussion around a dinner party tonight and the issue seemed v. contentious, so I said I would post on here to gauge other opinions!

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mondaytosunday · 06/01/2023 19:32

Im 5' 11" and one boyfriend was 5'7" and my first serious boyfriend was 5'8". My husband was my height.

huniepop · 06/01/2023 19:43

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Do you have anything else to offer besides being a fairly typical height for a man?

5128gap · 06/01/2023 19:45

huniepop · 06/01/2023 19:43

Do you have anything else to offer besides being a fairly typical height for a man?

Ouch!😂

KnitterNat · 06/01/2023 19:46

Nope.

Cuppasoupmonster · 06/01/2023 19:48

All the posters getting touchy when a man has similar criteria! Couldn’t make it up really…

XVII · 06/01/2023 19:49

I came to the conclusion long before I’d even heard of MN that the shorter the woman the taller the man she fancie had to be. Reading MN I am pretty much convinced of it!
i am 182cm so a smidge under 6ft. All my relationships have been with women over 5ft 8 and my wife is 5ft 10.
my 3 sisters are all 5ft 10-11. One has a husband who is 5ft 7, one’s exh is 5.9 and current husband 5.10 and 3rd ex is 6ft and current 5.11.
they dont care at all about height.
so my advise to guys below 6ft - go for tall women and leave the short arses for the 6.1 plus brigade!

Cuppasoupmonster · 06/01/2023 19:50

It’s probably subconsciously because they want their son to inherit some tall genes.

LadyKenya · 06/01/2023 19:57

I would not want to really. I am rather petite though, just a smidge over 5ft.

LadyKenya · 06/01/2023 19:59

Backstreets · 06/01/2023 18:12

I’m 5 nothing and yes I would but he’d have to have curly hair too (non negotiable) so we could be hobbits together

😁

5128gap · 06/01/2023 20:03

Cuppasoupmonster · 06/01/2023 19:48

All the posters getting touchy when a man has similar criteria! Couldn’t make it up really…

I'm sure there are no women on here or anywhere else who aren't very aware that men have physical criteria for women, so it hardly comes as a surprise.
Its actually the reverse that amuses me. Men are extremely appearance focused, yet soon start whining when the boots on the other foot.

althetis · 06/01/2023 21:30

Cuppasoupmonster · 06/01/2023 19:48

All the posters getting touchy when a man has similar criteria! Couldn’t make it up really…

Only one is appearance based though - not overweight.

Drugs and an asexual partner most will be in agreement with.

Vegans and single mothers 🤔

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ReneBumsWombats · 06/01/2023 21:30

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Every day's a school day!

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5128gap · 06/01/2023 21:37

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Well in the words of the least vegan sounding of artists... two out of three ain't bad.😂

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"You can tell all that just from a photograph?"

usernotfound0000 · 06/01/2023 21:43

No, but only because I'm only 5'3" so they would be very short!

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althetis · 06/01/2023 21:45

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The children of single mothers will already have an involved father in a lot of cases and no need of another.

If we're talking about stereotypes the vegans I know are left wing, yes, but also earth mother types with above average number of children (educated in early years via Steiner or Montessori method).

huniepop · 06/01/2023 21:47

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You are well within the realms of average. Do you think if you're 5'8 you're short suddenly? Your three inches above average. That is average. Many men are 6'.

Also you use 7 inches as if it's huge, that's also fairly standard😂

Anyway, your entitled to your preference but please remember being 6' is not an achievement

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LaLuz7 · 06/01/2023 21:54

Cuppasoupmonster · 06/01/2023 19:48

All the posters getting touchy when a man has similar criteria! Couldn’t make it up really…

Exactly. It's quite hilarious

Account49216 · 06/01/2023 21:55

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althetis · 06/01/2023 21:56

Fair enough!

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