Men on OLD are the pits

[ArtisticYouth]

Seriously.. I've tried Tinder, Bumble and Hinge..

It's mostly the same old boring potato headed men gawking into their smartphone with a serial killer look on their face.

Where are the good looking men?

Good looking men don’t need to use apps

Exactly. And if they're a good person, they're already taken.

I met DH on POF & we were engaged after a year. Very happily married now for a good few years. He's v handsome, as it happens...

Keep the faith. I was about to just bin the OLD when he messaged.

I suppose that makes sense.. i am in my 30s

Met my DP on Tinder 18 months ago. I swoon when he enters the room. We are both happy, functional, attractive people. But older 48 & 51. I was his first date after a LTR. Took him 5 hours. I had been on it for nearly two years...

Even if you do find a good looking one, more chance they are a fuck boy who will cheat on you rather than a decent man, so there’s also that.

old is not easy!

Ah surely not all men? I was on apps beginning of the year and there were some good looking ones with gorgeous smiles. I also think that good men make bad relationship choices and become single later in life.
I wish you good luck 🤞😘

I met my BF on tinder, I think he's lovely!

He's handsome and thoughtful

*I meant some good looking men 🤣

I was about to give up after years and found my current partner in my last attempt.

It’s just your luck!

Shhhh don't trigger them...

So presumably that goes for women too?

I've seen you write this before, and several people explained quite clearly to you how this isn't the case at all. Have you got a been in your bonnet about this for some reason? I can't fathom what it would be!

I am married. OLD sounds awful. Too many men treating it like a sweetie jar. Difficult to find someone your own age if you don't want an older man. Aren't they always after a younger woman?

Indeed

These days though OLD seems to be fairly normal for dating. People seem to have given up on traditional ways of meeting.

Saves the awkwardness of working out if you can ask them out though.

Goodness. It must be very depressing when even women you consider very unattractive won't look twice at you. Maybe review your profile. A bigger carp perhaps?

>> A bigger carp perhaps?

Not gonna lie, that made me roar out loud!

Fucking brilliant! 😂

The algorithms show you people that are of a similar level of attractiveness to you (ie. the number of right swipes you have).

So if you are only seeing ugly men then... this is your league I'm afraid! Expand your filters, improve your profile and then you might see some more attractive men.

That makes no sense! The op herself is not taken. Does that mean she's bad??

Savage

Well OP was pretty savage about the men on OLD 😆

Not true! By this logic OP is also unattractive and not a good person.

OP how long have you been single? If every single man is a big no for you, perhaps you aren't ready?

Or perhaps you need to adjust your expectations?

When I was on OLD i took an approach whereby if i was unsure, i swiped right so i could find out either way rather than potentially dismissing someone i could like. I'd have a quick chat any maybe get a few more pictures. Some people just struggle with profiles.