affair partner back in contact

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went no contact with affair partner. haven't seen him for months why has he started messaging again

Probably wants and ego boost or to restart the affair.

If you decided to go no contact, how is he getting in touch? Block him if you don't want to get into all that again.

His circumstances have changed?

Because he wants to get his end away, I expect. More fool you if you allow yourself to be sucked back in.

He found me on SM with a fake account. Still with his wife

It depends on what caused you both to cease contact but the fact that he has a wife would suggest he's become bored with her again or something like that?

his wife found out

Maybe he's bought a new car and wants to show off to you?

Maybe his wife finding out wasn’t enough. Maybe he enjoys the fact that she knows and stayed.

What are you going to do about it?

He may genuinely miss you. He has made efforts to make contact with you. Interact with him and see how it goes. His marriage long since broken down. He probably wants to leave his wife but costs to do so financially crippling . Talk to him and see how you both want to proceed.

😂😂😂😂😂

@Ginger1982 Just being honest.

Maybe his wife has started to heal from the betrayal, is finding her place in the world again, becoming more confident, more radiant, attracting more attention, and he's losing his narcissistic supply from her ... so has reverted to good old dependable you again?!

😂😂😂I'm just sure that must be his reasoning 😂😂

@Yankeescot yes, people are unhappy in marriages. People can leave those marriages.

He's either horny or homeless.

Possible both.

Because he's head over heels in love with you and can't live without you as you're so irresistible. Is this what you want to hear?

Sex.

Maybe you could read the message he sent you.....may give you a clue 🙄

Block him after telling him to fuck off.

Maybe he's shopping for new pants and wants your opinion on how well they might wash?

Because the hysterical bonding between his poor wife and him has worn off and she is clearly unhappy so he's trying to cheer himself up.

please block him and tell his wife how do you know they are still together have you been keeping an eye on their sm? He wants attention if he had wanted to be with you he would of left his wife at the time

His got bored with his wife and wants to shag about again

This is the fucking worst advice I've ever heard. You must either have personal experience of banging someone else's Husband, or you're batshit.

OP, please disregard this dangerous nonsene.

What does he say in his messages?