affair partner back in contact

[bstd890]

went no contact with affair partner. haven't seen him for months why has he started messaging again

This is just perfect! 😂😂😂

But then this is the one she wants to aknowledge.

You know what he wants, cake and eating time.

Look he really doesn't love you, if he did he wouldn't have chanced losing you, he reserved that for his wife, now he thinks the wife is back on track he picks up with you.

Depends if you want to be his play thing.
Forward his message onto his wife, show her you've turned a corner and are respecting women more than men.

What @ViolinPin said.

The problem with his wife staying with him is that he's likely thinking he can get away with it again for a while and he thinks that even if she finds out again she will stay again.

Messages are general chat. He says he is still with her. I don't know what to think. Imagine he just wants sex.

Sounds a bit odd OP like he just wants general chat as if he is short of friends!

Please just tell his poor wife

Ask him why he is contacting you?

his wife has been through enough

he won't tell the truth

She deserves to know this is absolutely awful and he’s the one who’s put her through it she deserves to know and hopefully ltb are you responding to his messages? What is it you want from him ? Sounds like you want something as you must of been responding instead of just blocking and deleting. Do they have kids together ?

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Errrrr …….

Sounds like you have a bit of compassion there OP. Unless you think there's a risk of her self harming I think you should let her know contact has started up again.

He is married.. he's lying and cheating on her and so even if you did take him back what makes you think he won't do the same .? For your own peace of mind delete his number and block him ..

After his Wife’s DDay, this Rat conned her, so she contacted you for the truth. You lied and backed him up. This innocent woman was asking for the honesty she deserves. You had the chance to do right by her.

You’ve been writing threads about this User/Loser for years. He initially lied that he was single. When you discovered he was married, you continued to allow him to come to yours for sex. Occasionally you’d write here and toy with the idea of telling his Wife.

She reached out to you for the truth and you wouldn’t give her that. Now the Rat is sniffing around you for more sex and worship, and you’re asking us what he wants.

@bstd890, you can still choose to respect her dignity by contacting her and being honest. As for Rat, block him every time he comes out of the gutter.

yes have kids. I need to ignore

which is? He wants to restart it? Who ended it?

Tell his wife. She deserves to live her life free of this scumbag

What !!!!

Must be something in the air today my contacted as well. After telling him off, he said is happy is not with me because I'm nasty lol poor baby I will cry.....

Because he's still a lying piece of shit, that's why he's contacted you.

So you've been replying? Why?

Are you both married or just him?

I don't know why. I cried when he messaged was so upset he messaged

Why didn’t you tell his poor Wife the truth when she contacted you and was desperate for honesty?

Why won’t you tell her now?

because she knows enough doesn't she