affair partner back in contact

[bstd890]

went no contact with affair partner. haven't seen him for months why has he started messaging again

Sorry, was this directed at me? No, I'm single.

He has a secnd phone messaged today. He misses us but knows he cant have it

Wow, what a great partner he would make🙄. Imagine, you'd always be wondering how many phones he's got on the go.

wouldnt trust him at all

His poor wife is beyond devastated and he’s still sneaking around trying to cheat. Totally unremorseful. And how entitled and disrespectful he is to you, @bstd890, to be stomping on your boundaries after you’ve blocked and deleted by slithering in on a second phone.

Well he's scuppered sex with both women at the moment, so he will try to go to the one whose boundaries are weaker.

Don't give in op, he thinks you're the easy one.

I hope you're waking up to what an absolute creep he is.

His wife right now is probably in a state of absolute shock. People who love her most in the world will be rallying and most likely so worried about her. He will be watching her broken and thinking of where he's going to get his ego kibbles and validation from.

It is that simple.

So he'll try and hoover you back. It's textbook. It's cruel. It shows his total lack of remorse for what he's done to either of you because all he can think of is himself.

Do not allow him back in.

Honestly, just tell his wife. She deserves to know @bstd890

LOL.

You deserve something for yourself. This guy is a joke. He fails in term of accountability but scores high on escapism. Really not worth your time. Nothing to invest but everything to lose.

Best answer 😂