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Take away to someone else address?

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Flowerpot101 · 31/08/2022 21:32

The other day, myself and my other half decided to order a take out Chinese from a place local but that we had from before but not for a while. The website auto saves the address and credit card similar to how just eat would. He passed me his phone to input my order, so I did then continued to checkout to find another address already on there, it’s his account, his credit card, but some one else’s full address, door number, street, post code. This address was a few estates away from us so not exactly a auto input from location services as it’s too far away, - I’d understand if it put on automatically next doors address or something. He brushed it under the carpet immediately saying “oh dunno why that’s there”
I memories the postcode and door number and obviously google mapped it to ensure it was an address. I even drove past the house, a mini parked outside, flowers in the window, so it’s actually a place.
Has he previously ordered a take away there or is this a simple technical error? Should I be worried?

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TimeForMeToF1y · 24/10/2022 21:25

Flowerpot102 · 24/10/2022 19:48

Purely by accident! She came up on my people who you might know on Facebook so I had a nosey, her fb isn't private. I recognised images of the front of the house (I drive past the take away address/this house on my way to work every morning to I know what it looks like 😩 but had no idea who lived there). I'm not interested in contacting her though at all.

You drive past the house every day? Thats not what you said orignally, have you changed jobs?

Flowerpot102 · 24/10/2022 21:33

Yes I changed jobs in September. In august I wasn't working at all and was waiting to start my new post. This address is a few estates away from me, (about a 5min drive) but I now go down this road to get into the next town where I now work. This isn't an issue though as I've lived in the area my whole life and have travelled this way on many occasions without a second thought. Its a main and well known road and is unavoidable to be honest

TimeForMeToF1y · 24/10/2022 22:06

I think I must be getting the addresses confused as you said originally that you had to use google maps to see if it was a real address which wouldn't be the main road. Ate you saying the take away is on the main road and you now drive through the estate

I'm wondering if you'd ever see the woman coming out of the house

Flowerpot102 · 24/10/2022 22:14

Nooo I did use Google maps originally... The street name that came up in he app meant nothing to me as I haven't mapped out my whole city and street names in my head. Once id Google mapped it I knew where it was as it's local. I didn't however sit outside the house as I dont have the guts. It's just a few estates away. I could literally walk there now from memory but what would be the point. I now drive past this house as it's down the road to get to my work so I know what house it is but never knew whose until yesterday morning!!

greenisblack · 24/10/2022 22:27

I would be driving past it for sure now (maybe even detouring when necessary) to check up on him tbh

PeacefulPottering · 25/10/2022 03:02

Agree with her looking at your profile on FB, hence her " popping up" on people you may know. It happened to me.
Scumbag ex met her in hotel and I accidentally found out by going to use his laptop for something and his secret Gmail was open with the hotel reservation there. Went on to messages and found out he had been messaging, private email shite, but this was the first time they had met up. ( Think cocaine, nightclub,hotel. That are both late forties 🤮)
Anyway couple of days later after I had confronted and kicked him out up pops her smugly face asking if I know her! Proper awful tbh as I then had a face to put to the shit I was going through ☹️
Bad days and I'm glad they are over so my heart goes out to you.
He is definitely lying, he has prob at least shagged her and he won't tell you anything because it will make him look bad.
Get your ducks in a row quickly and privately, don't tell him ANYTHING,he is not your friend now and will be looking to protect his wallet.

PeacefulPottering · 25/10/2022 03:11

Also, re the house. Get some legal advice definitely. Depending on how old your children are isn't it classed as the family home regardless of who is on the mortgage? Someone else may know, I wasn't on the mortgage but had been together 17 years with two early teen kids and I chose to move out eventually ( I wanted to moved area) and he paid maintenance but I'm not sure that is everyone's situation if the kids are young.

JustKittenAround · 25/10/2022 08:58

Flowerpot101 · 17/09/2022 15:50

Oooooh! Sorry for the drip feed, the other night too, he called some other woman’s name out in his sleep 😂 he was saying “Rach, rach, Racheal no,” 👀👀👀 I personally don’t know a Racheal, neither does he. Was probably nothing but still 🤣

Ok,time to go touch grass hon.

we aren’t meant to call out trolls. Which of course I’d never.

But methinks you need to crawl out from under the bridge and get some sunlight.

or have that generous man order more takeout !!!!

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