My husband says he is going to move to Australia in 5 years time and he is going whether me or our son (1 year old) goes with him.
We've been together for 10+ years. He does not care for his family or mine. He does love our little unit (even if that sounds ridiculous, but it's true).
His main reason for wanting to live there is the lifestyle.
He is serious that he will go without us, because "it is something he has to do."
Please help me digest this not so new info as he's been saying it for about a year...
I love where I live and am close to both our families. I have not shut him down about moving to Oz but he knows I'd prefer not to. I think my reluctance is made greater by him saying he's going anyway...
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HUSBAND SAYS HE'S MOVING TO AUSTRALIA - HELP
SillySausage01 · 27/04/2022 13:35
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SillySausage01 · 27/04/2022 13:55
He assumes our son would stay with me. I don't think he has concerned the support arrangements. I cannot wrap my head around how he could leave our son.
He says if I don't go we simply want different things and he is not willing to live his 1 life in the UK. So am I being unreasonable by being resistant, or would you feel the same if your arm was being twisted by him saying its all or nothing...
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