Things my husband said to me today

[Sleeplessem]

‘Go lose some weight’ I’m 3kg up on pre baby weight at 10 weeks PP. went on a specific weight gain diet in order to avoid iugr this time. Worked too well apparently
‘You’ve got disgusting saggy tits’ I’m breastfeeding and I’ve always hated my boobs
‘You’ve peaked at a mid 30k job, you’ll never get aboie that, you’re not capable’
And some derogatory comment about my education

Oh to be young and in love

@Gonnagetgoing

“@AutomaticMoon my mum had supportive parents in words but not finance or childcare.

Dad’s parents wanted to kidnap his son from his first marriage so my mum wanted nothing to do with them or him and only wanted the house which she got.

You’ll find support if you want it badly enough.”

I have no idea what this means.

@BellatricksStrange

“If you know you're going to stick it out, at least for the foreseeable future, do something to make it better. To me this absolutely doesn't sound like your marriage isn't salvageable. It seems you've both fallen into a rut of toxic behaviours, but trust me there is a way out. And the potential is there to make the marriage bloom, such that you will relish spending time together.“

What the actual fuck? Troll.

I had no one either 21 years ago but I did leave and went to a refuge and I was very happy as could concentrate on my baby son and very happy months. When you are in a situation it is often very hard to think clearly but it is only when you leave that you realize you should have done it sooner and you will find peace of mind. The longer you stay the harder it will be as you will be more ground down and your confidence eroded. Financially yes it will be harder but it was the best decision for my son and I and I know it is so difficult to do especially with no support but you are better to move to a different town anyway as safer for you and your children. Ring the helplines when you get a chance as just talking through the situation does help you to see things more clearly as often we are stuck and do not realize how bad a situation we are in until we are out of it. Wishing you the best.

Why are you with that arsehole!!