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Husband's mistress has dumped him and now I want him back!

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WhereTheFuck · 28/08/2021 14:28

Argh I am in such a shitty situation. at the beginning of May my husband left me for a woman he had been having an affair with since before Christmas. We have a DD who was barely 18 months when he left. Since then I have done really well, haven't missed a day of work, been strong for DD and H and I were actually doing an ok job of co-parenting. I even met someone else on tinder in July and we have met a few times and had some great sex Blush It was starting to get easier and easier.

Today I have found out that my husband's OW has just dumped him and said she thinks they would be better as friends... and to be honest it has sent me right back to square one. I just feel like this whole situation is a terrible waste, especially for our little DD, and all I want to do is ask my husband to come back and give it another go.

Argh!! Please talk some sense into me Sad

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Pastryapronsucks · 27/09/2021 15:06

@GinIronic

Don’t do it. He will leave again when he gets a better offer.

What he perceives as a better offer.

OP be strong. He is a looser.
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SuperStarRose · 27/09/2021 15:22

It's not him you really want it's just the idea of being with someone.

Just not him.

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SuperStarRose · 27/09/2021 15:23

You can give it a tentative go again but I doubt it'll last because you just won't feel the same anymore

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Sunshineandrainbow · 30/03/2022 10:41

Could you ever trust him again?
You deserve better than this.

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