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Husband looking at teenage girls

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Candyblosoom1 · 31/07/2021 23:26

I caught my husband (early 40s) looking at teenage girls a few times when we're out.

The girls he looks at are usually wearing mini skirts, shorts or have their breast out.

They look like there are between 15-18 years old.

I remember when I was around 14, I had a few men staring at me even though I always dressed modestly so I'm starting to wonder if that's in men's nature.

I asked one of my friend who's husband thinks his behaviour is normal. That every men are attracted to young girls(15-18) with boobs or nice legs even if they don't want to admit it. It doesn't mean that they will act on it.

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5128gap · 13/05/2022 13:37

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TheVolturi · 13/05/2022 13:40

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Yep but your cocks start to shrivel from 40 onwards so these girls won't want you anyway, shame.

5128gap · 13/05/2022 13:48

TheVolturi · 13/05/2022 13:40

Yep but your cocks start to shrivel from 40 onwards so these girls won't want you anyway, shame.

Yeah, but his nose is growing like Pinochio to compensate and his pants are truly on fire!

TalkingCat · 13/05/2022 13:53

He is trying to gaslight you. He is sick, looking at girls that young. It would definitely worry me. I would tell him not to 'put it back on me', that you KNOW what his look is and how he looks at girls, you are not imagining it, and that HE will ruin your relationship if he doesn't stop. Don't allow him to put this on you.

MrsBlaue · 13/05/2022 14:30

Not making an effort to not stare at someone else when out with your partner is disrespectful.

On the point of age, looking at someone obviously underage is deranged. Looking at someone very young is fine, just not in front of your partner.

JulyDreams · 13/05/2022 18:09

This would totally upset me if I caught my husband doing this. Have you asked him?

alwaysontheloo · 13/05/2022 19:21

@MrsBlaue a man in his 40s looking at someone 'very young' whether under age or not is creepy as fuck.
Do you see many women in their 40s checking out 17 year old boys?

MrsBlaue · 13/05/2022 20:42

You may not like it, but yes, youth is the prime age, it’s when people look their best.

When I’m 50 I am pretty sure I will be looking at young 25 year old guys thinking they look attractive rather than at 50 year old men because I’m 50 myself. The legal age of consent is 16 as far as I’m aware.

StephanieM17 · 13/05/2022 21:09

MrsBlaue I doubt you’ll be glaring and intimidating 25 year old men. It’s not the same thing 🙄

youvegottenminuteslynn · 13/05/2022 21:22

MrsBlaue · 13/05/2022 20:42

You may not like it, but yes, youth is the prime age, it’s when people look their best.

When I’m 50 I am pretty sure I will be looking at young 25 year old guys thinking they look attractive rather than at 50 year old men because I’m 50 myself. The legal age of consent is 16 as far as I’m aware.

You would think a 50 year old woman leering over a 17 year old boy is fine? Yuck.

TheVolturi · 14/05/2022 08:55

There is nothing attractive about 17 year old boys, they look and act like kids. Even if they occasionally do look more grown up, you can still tell they're that age, and a normal woman would not perv over them.

MrsBlaue · 17/05/2022 18:54

youvegottenminuteslynn · 13/05/2022 21:22

You would think a 50 year old woman leering over a 17 year old boy is fine? Yuck.

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