He wants nothing more to do with me over a minor thing

[Hasinah101]

I’ve posted before about an incident that happened but just to a quick summary of what previously happened was, he wanted to leave me because he said he had an emotional break down due to us being an hour away from each other and him being so madly in love with me that he’ll find it hard not being able to see me everyday.. eventually he came round and was like sorry I love you, he wasn’t himself when he was having his breakdown and he said things he didn’t mean..

Currently as we speak I’m not begging for him to not leave me. I stupidly sent him a conversation between me and my ex where it was just me telling my ex I want absolutely nothing to do with him.. but a day before this my bf asked to see my phone.. more specifically look in my gallery and I have some embarrassing pics in there so I was like no but after like a min I was like ok.. but he assumed I deleted stuff..

Now he is telling me to leave him, that the whole time I have been faking our relationship.. he just wants to be alone, that his life is shit.. that I should go back to my cheating ex and why am I being so nice to him after he cheated in the past for 2 yrs…

Everything is a mess, I don’t know what to do.. please don’t be horrible.. I’m just thinking to leave him to it bc in all honesty I’m exhausted

Can someone tell me what is wrong with him because I am so confused and what you think I should do

Far too much drama. Bin and block.

What ever is wrong with him you don't need this level of mistrust, jealousy and immaturity.

Just so many red flags...

“See ya.” Then move on.

He's an abusive dick is what's wrong with him. Please leave him and get on with enjoying a life with far less drama

He sounds exceptionally hard work and won’t change.

I would advise moving on and not looking back.

sounds like hard work.
chuck this one back

You should absolutely leave him. He said he wants to be alone, so I would make it happen for him. Delete his number and block him too, so that he can't bother you with his needy, controlling gas-lighting bullshit. Then you can both enjoy some peace.

Your instincts are spot on. People who act like this care only about themselves, and will carry on draining you until you have nothing left. I know from personal experience. Take the out, and thank your lucky stars.

Can I just say guys aswell, I was ill the other day and wasn’t on my phone and he left me 171 missed calls that day

He sounds insecure, controlling and manipulative.

I think you are right in leaving him to it. You deserve much better

What the fuck! Sack him off. You don't need to justify yourself to anyone. Or show them your phone.

@Hasinah101

Can I just say guys aswell, I was ill the other day and wasn’t on my phone and he left me 171 missed calls that day

that's not healthy

run fast, run far

I'm not surprised you're exhausted, he sounds exhausting.

Step right back. Silence and space. Give yourself chance to breathe. Leave him to it.

Please do go before you get deeper in.

@Ozymandias101 yes, this whole relationship.. I just feel so overwhelmed by him. He has even admitted to being very (emotionally) unstable

Agree with all the others. He's dramatic and immature. I'd have laughed when he told me I should go back to my cheating ex and told him, Not a chance. I can do far better.

Block and move on. You've dodged a bullet.

@Hasinah101

Can I just say guys aswell, I was ill the other day and wasn’t on my phone and he left me 171 missed calls that day

this alone would be enough to send me running for the hills. How could you be dealing with all this drama - life's too short. I have no idea what is wrong with him but something definitely is.

Send him an application for RADA and block him.

He sounds emotionally abusive. He's jealous, controlling and slightly deranged

@Hasinah101

Can I just say guys aswell, I was ill the other day and wasn’t on my phone and he left me 171 missed calls that day

Jesus!

That's insane. He's a nutter.

Block him now. No conversation, no explanation.

I have been begging him all day and telling him I don’t want to leave him but now I’ve just had enough.

Well stop begging. Get some self respect.

No wonder he's enjoying the ongoing drama. Are you both 13?

@MadMadMadamMim I’ve come to my senses now. I think he likes it when I beg for him to stay and tell him I will never leave him etc 😕

Are you both 13? my 13 yo DD would not put up with this level of childishness and she certainly wouldn't be begging him not to leave.

Like the others have said, get some self respect and block him, on everything then arrange to meet your friends.

Never beg.
You have begged. So stop and block. Begging was an error, it comes from the shock, trying to stabilise the situation. It doesn't work. The only way to be stable is to ditch the loser.
Block and move on.