He wants nothing more to do with me over a minor thing

[Hasinah101]

I’ve posted before about an incident that happened but just to a quick summary of what previously happened was, he wanted to leave me because he said he had an emotional break down due to us being an hour away from each other and him being so madly in love with me that he’ll find it hard not being able to see me everyday.. eventually he came round and was like sorry I love you, he wasn’t himself when he was having his breakdown and he said things he didn’t mean..

Currently as we speak I’m not begging for him to not leave me. I stupidly sent him a conversation between me and my ex where it was just me telling my ex I want absolutely nothing to do with him.. but a day before this my bf asked to see my phone.. more specifically look in my gallery and I have some embarrassing pics in there so I was like no but after like a min I was like ok.. but he assumed I deleted stuff..

Now he is telling me to leave him, that the whole time I have been faking our relationship.. he just wants to be alone, that his life is shit.. that I should go back to my cheating ex and why am I being so nice to him after he cheated in the past for 2 yrs…

Everything is a mess, I don’t know what to do.. please don’t be horrible.. I’m just thinking to leave him to it bc in all honesty I’m exhausted

there is no reason on earth to tolerate shit like this for even one second. Discard him without a second thought.

[quote Hasinah101]@MadMadMadamMim I’ve come to my senses now. I think he likes it when I beg for him to stay and tell him I will never leave him etc 😕[/quote]
Of course he does. He's an immature prick.

And lots of us (at about 13) dreamed of someone begging us to stay and telling us they'd never leave us.

Most of us outgrow it. Seriously time to block him.

He’s telling you who he is. BELIEVE HIM and run

Why were you begging?

I bet you a tenner that if you text him 'I think you're right, I've thought about it and I think we should split up. Please don't contact me again. I wish you all the best for the future'

He'll be back within half an hour

He tells you he doesn’t want to be with you

And then he requests again to break up

He sounds awful (171 missed calls is psychotic)

And you are still begging him not to leave? I’m not clear why you want him to stay.

Get some self respect.

He’s a manipulative tosspot. This is a no brainer - stop wringing your hands over a situation which is very clear cut. Dump the idiot.

171 missed calls is horrifying.

I'm guessing you stayed with this relationship because you were still hurt about the previous one's cheating.

But you need to keep looking.

Every moment you are in this mess of a 'relationship' is a moment of your life you're wasting.

And it means you're not in a good relationship.

Give yourself the life you deserve, rather than a whole load of mess.

Because you are not going to be sitting on the sofa at 70 thinking, 'Wow!! I am so glad I wasted years on that mess of a relationship! Wow!! What a gift I gave to myself!!'

I’m exhausted just imagining it. Dump and run for the hills.

Oh good grief. Sack this one right off. Fun and games with an emotional abuser who want to be with you ‘every day’.

He sounds like a fucking nightmare frankly. I want to run in the other direction, never mind you.

Bleugh! Bin him off! He sounds unhinged!

@HollowTalk

Send him an application for RADA and block him.

RADA would be exhausted by the end of his audition tape.

FFS.

Where's the dilemma?

This guy is a grade A prick.

Just dump his ass already, why are you wasting brain space on it. There's loads of stuff on Netflix to think about and you're wasting energy on him?

Block him, look after yourself and stay single for a while. Put yourself first and stop with the relationship drama.

He is definitely only doing it so that you beg him. I would run

I just told him I won’t beg him anymore and if he wants me to leave I will go now he is saying it’s all very confusing and he doesn’t know. I don’t plan on responding anymore.. it’s only 1 month into our relationship and it’s already like this

1 month?? 1 month????

Christ.

Block him and run.

Is this some sort of a joke?

Not only should you not be seeing this dickhead, you shouldn't be seeing anyone until you can work out why you have such astonishingly terrible taste.

He quite possibly has significant mental health challenges.

One month!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@Sacredspace

He quite possibly has significant mental health challenges.

Possibly. But it’s more likely he’s just a prick.

I told him... if he wants me to leave I will go now

You’re still giving him control. Leave because he is an unsafe person and you need to keep yourself safe.

1 month?? Walk away and pick up your self respect. He's an arse, you deserve better and you really, really need to do the Freedom Programme. You can do so much better.

Too much drama.

Imagine having kids with him.

Just block. Move on.