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He's cheating and he knows I'm pregnant

166 replies

whichnameisavailablethen · 03/02/2021 13:49

Hi.

I've been on mumsnet many years ago when my two little ones were young.

So half an hour ago, my kid asked me to change something on his dads phone, but he was actually on his fathers tinder account.

We found out I was pregnant a week ago, we've been together 11 years and he set up dating profiles on other sites too.

I know it's wrong to have looked but after the tinder I couldn't help it. They are all set up from the day he found out and he's been messaging women day and night since.

I'm heartbroken and feel worthless

OP posts:
Mintyt · 07/02/2021 15:30

Oh I'm sorry for your loss, and sorry too that he hasn't responded to you. Stay strong

PeanutButtaCups · 07/02/2021 15:32

I’m so sorry for your loss💐

Ludo19 · 07/02/2021 15:38

I'm so so sorry to hear this OP.

I really wish you stayed close to friends and family. Please stay strong, don't let that using bustard back into your life. You are vulnerable but you will get stronger by the day.

Sending you hugs xxx

youvegottenminuteslynn · 07/02/2021 16:05

I'm so sorry OP, you sound so lovely and don't deserve any of this ThanksThanksThanks

FrostyGotFurloughed · 07/02/2021 16:38

I'm so so sorry for the loss of your baby!

BlueThistles · 07/02/2021 16:41

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BlueThistles · 07/02/2021 16:44

Sorry OP Ive asked for my reply to be removed... the full thread hadn't loaded when i replied.. I'm so sorry 🌺

chickennuggets2 · 07/02/2021 19:21

So sorry OP, sending hugs Thanks

Itstimetoquit · 07/02/2021 20:10

Sending hugs x

billy1966 · 07/02/2021 21:25

Sor sorrry for you OP.
Mind yourself.
Flowers

Rdaisyleo · 07/02/2021 21:40
Flowers
beenwhereyouare · 10/02/2021 15:03

I'm so sorry to hear about the baby.

You don't deserve any of this. Please look after and be kind to yourself. Let the love of your boys help heal the pain. You are worthy of so much better than you've received.

Flowers
Ponderinglife123 · 10/02/2021 15:28

OP im soo sorry for your loss you ve been through soo much stay strong for your boys you sound like a great mum worrying about whats best for them not wanting to upset them..hes a bastard karma will get him thatsfor sure x

altiara · 10/02/2021 15:59

Sending a hug Flowers
Have you got any support? Or keep posting if you need some virtual support.
Sorry for your loss Flowers

Dasher789 · 15/02/2021 03:15

So sorry for your loss op and everything you are going through Flowers

packupmytroubles · 15/02/2021 03:40

I'm so sorry for your loss xx

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