[quote Rollercoasteride]@Mix56 thanks for your kind words
He has said he is sorry alot, but only recently he sounded like he actually ment it.
After such a bad day Friday for us both, he admitted that he felt guilty, shame, worried about the future, DS, me and finances. And so he should feel all this.
He probably feels gutted that OW has cut his off. Because she clearly didn't know he was going to leave me nor tell me.
He is now looking for a house share...I have no idea, but he doesn't seem want want to move into the flat.
Speaking to my GP on Friday, he said he thought OW was a distraction lol.
But again I can't believe his actions have put my on anti depressants![/quote]
Do you still have him blocked ? Is all this talk face to face ? You are in limbo currently and tbh you sound as if you are thinking too much about HIS feelings, situation etc and not enough about YOURS . It is natural to try to work things out in your head and to believe that somehow he had his head turned and he was stupid or whatever word you want to use . It really is irrelevant when you look at the bare facts of the situation. I gave my ex H a chance and he then a while later did the same thing again with the same woman and walked out . You can't trust him and he is not your friend . His number one priority is HIMSELF and his HAPPINESS . He has shown you this . Reread the last line of this post when you feel sorry for him .