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Dp constantly moans about my boobs

346 replies

Mumofthree1984 · 13/04/2020 16:05

Sorry for the rant but I'm so so so pissed off. Dp constantly moans about my boobs, yes they are quite big a 38 DD/E he hated me wearing balcony bras so I took him with me to get fitted in M&S into full cup bras (his choice) a pack of two padded and 2 lacey, he was ok with these at the time. My black padded one has somehow gone missing, I'm. Sure it's in the house somewhere but with 5 of us living here probably got mixed up somewhere. Any way he hates me wearing low cut tops, when I say low cut they aren't the type that my tits are literally hanging out, in fact u can't even see my cleavage just my chest. He says it's if I. Lean forward u can see done some of them. This is becoming very very very draining. I even ripped a bra off in an argument well actually 2 now, we were going up to the cemetary to visit my dads grave, all ready to leave and he starts, we'll that tops a bit revealing, i was so angry, it's not even showing anything! I ripped the top. Off anf the bra, so. Now I'm. Down to 1 bra yes 1, i refuse to buy anymore, I can't afford it, i said why don't we just cut my boobs off, that's the last option we have. I'm not wearing turtle necks all year, so. Now I'm sat in my pyjamas really annoyed whilst he is in my room. Going through all my tops! I've had enough seriously enough

OP posts:
HollowTalk · 13/04/2020 16:07

What the fuck?

You are living with this creep?

Bananarama101 · 13/04/2020 16:08

The only unnecessarily large tit here is him... Controlling, shaming, draining. Get rid.

chickenyhead · 13/04/2020 16:09

wow
Your boobs are part of you..they aren't optional.

If he cannot accept them he needs to trot on.

What if you didn't like say, his face.

He is a prat. Bin him.

Driedupvag · 13/04/2020 16:09

Are you actually serious?

You have a serious problem if you're letting a man dictate what bras you wear!

Ffs... LTB. And that's the first ever time I've said that!

Itsallgonewoowoo · 13/04/2020 16:10

He's going through your tops? You can't help your bust size tell him to shut up and put upon to bugger off.

Cosyjimjamsforautumn · 13/04/2020 16:10

Dump this 6 foot tit

hesgotit · 13/04/2020 16:10

He's going through your tops and I presume deciding which ones are appropriate, leave him immediately.

MrsTerryPratchett · 13/04/2020 16:10

He's weird and controlling and he either changes or you consider the future of the relationship.

AntiHop · 13/04/2020 16:10

He is controlling and abusive. I am 40dd and my dp would never behave like this.

I'm guessing this isn't his only controlling behaviour. Flowers

category12 · 13/04/2020 16:10

Get shot of the controlling prick.

chickenyhead · 13/04/2020 16:11

oh and buy yourself a see through top Grin

Notredamn · 13/04/2020 16:11

You're being badly abused.

rvby · 13/04/2020 16:11

Can I ask why you're with him? Is there something he brings to your life that makes his behaviour something you need to put up with?

CuriousaboutSamphire · 13/04/2020 16:11

You know he is being a controlling test.

Tell him to take his insecurities and piss off.

forkfun · 13/04/2020 16:11

Start telling him his trousers are too tight.

MrsGrindah · 13/04/2020 16:11

I read your other thread. You have clearly had enough to of each other.

Snowdown24 · 13/04/2020 16:12

He has a serious problem. Not you, him!

TheCatBar · 13/04/2020 16:12

Get rid of the biggest tit...him!

CuriousaboutSamphire · 13/04/2020 16:12

Test = twat, obviously. My autocorrect seems to have become prudish overnight Smile

longdays · 13/04/2020 16:12

My exh did this. As others above have said it’s controlling behaviour.

Windyatthebeach · 13/04/2020 16:13

Get rid op. While you still have some self esteem left..

abbidabbi · 13/04/2020 16:13

First ever LTB here too. You were going to a cemetery and he made it about your boobs??? He sounds very controlling. If it wasn't your body he would want to be controlling something else about you. This will escalate. How long have you been together?

This probably isn't actually about your body at all, it's about his ownership and dominance over you and not wanting any other men to look at you. Utterly gross. I really feel for you. You need to show him the door.

JorisBonson · 13/04/2020 16:13

There's only one tit here and it's him.

What a disgusting man.

Lucked · 13/04/2020 16:13

What! just do not accept it. At all. Tell him to fuck off and stop touching your stuff.

So not married? How quickly can you leave?

unicornsarereal72 · 13/04/2020 16:14

Fuck That shit. My boobs are my best asset. And bigger than yours. If anyone told me to put them away or what to wear they would be told what to do with that idea.