The unpalatable points that many posters are either avoiding saying or possibly hasn’t occurred to them...
1 There’s a VERY high likelihood your bf was also victimised by this excuse of a man.
2 Given his attitude there’s also a high possibility your bf is also a paedophile.
Although 1 doesn’t necessarily have to have happened to facilitate 2 and I don’t actually subscribe to the theory that paedophiles are more likely to have been victims themselves, that claim is generally a cop out used to elicit sympathy.
You will never have peace of mind staying in a relationship with this man, and potentially by having dc with him you could be creating future victims of either his father or him.
This will end in tears at some point anyway - better sooner than later and before more victims are created.
This is a perfect example of why these bastards once convicted should never be released in my opinion!
A year is no time at all. Get out now before it gets even harder to leave.
It’s REALLY easy to mess with a child’s memory re date/time/place plus victims don’t always remember those accurately - doesn’t mean the abuse didn’t happen!
NO! The image thing is not “ok” at all! People accessing those images are fuelling the industry that perpetuates the abduction and abuse of the children in those images! It is EVERY BIT as bad as carrying out the abuse themselves.
“they wouldn't think twice about manipulating you into breeding their next victim.” Yep agree with this.
Just leave him op, not worth the heartache of staying.