New boyfriend wouldn't give me a lift home...am I right to be annoyed?

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Saturday night I went out with him and his friend and girlfriend (only first time I met them)
Anyway long story short we missed the last train and he said we could stay at his and girlfriends house.
Then ..next morning,reality set in.
I had slept in my clothes and I had no makeup with me and I looked a treat (not)
My boyfriend said his sister was collecting him and taking him home,I was thinking "hmmm is she taking me home too"so I said
"Would you mind dropping me at the train station and il jump on the train"(thinking he would say il drive you )
He then says .."I really can't,she doesn't like giving lifts to strangers and the train station is 10 mins opposite to the way we are going"
So we go downstairs ..and they make us a cuppa.
Half way through he gets a texts and his sister arrives and he just stands up and says
"She's here,gives me a kiss and leaves and tells me to text once I'm home"
So ..I'm sat on strangers sofa ...looking a state and he has left.
Would you be annoyed too?
Am I being a drama queen ?

Omg I would be so annoyed! His sister sounds odd too - doesn't give lifts to strangers? You're her brother's girlfriend! Weird..

Yep, deal breaker! Dump his sorry ass!

He’s a rude, selfish thoughtless dickhead.
He sorted himself and didn’t give a fuck about you. Thank goodness he’s shown you his true colours so early on bin him off and don’t give him another thought.
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Up your bar op..
Ltb today.

My guess is that wasn't his sister.
He's a fuckwit and not worth it.
Leave now and find someone who will treat you well.

I've never met any of his family and I don't think they know about me.
I don't think he wanted the "who is she " questions but still no excuse.

End it.

He’s done this to see what he can get away with/what level of dog shit you’d tolerate. If you let him think you’re happy to be treated in this manner, he’ll know you’re someone who doesn’t need to be respected.

Dump him. If he’s like this at the start of a new relationship I dread to think what he would be like in 5 yrs time.

Wow he left you stranded!!WTH!Dump him!

Oh wow. He really did that? I’d not be messaging him again. Are you sure it was his sister? That sounds weird to me. Why would his sister pick him up? I think you’re being two timed here. He probably had a date planned with another woman! Get rid of this loser

What a twat! Dump!

I'm a bloke and there's no way I'd treat a woman I was having a relationship with in this way. It's not acceptable at all. Even if I were just friends with her I'd want to make sure that she got back home safe, plus it's also very rude to leave a stranger in your mates house . I bet they felt terrible on your behalf.

I think it was really off just to leave you having made his own arrangements.

Did he not even ask how you were getting to the station?

Is he 12? My 16 year old DS takes better care of his girlfriend than that.

View this as a handy red flag. Fast forward a few years (if you stay with him) and you'll be dominating the MN boards with hideous in-law tales.

I consider myself a pretty laid back person but this has pissed me off reading it! Selfish prick, he has shown he has no consideration for you at all, whatsoever. I couldn't stay with someone who thought so little of me, dump his ass

That’s really thoughtless and sad and hopefully not indicative of other behaviour.

If you havent met any of his family,odds on that wasnt his sister.

The people he left you with,how good of friends are they to him.And did one of them at least make sure you got to the station.

He'd be getting a lift to dumpsville if he did that to me. Thoughtless arse.

That is ridiculous. Dump him and start the new year without that waste of space. You deserve better!

Wow - what a gent!!????
You know what to do.
He is showing you exactly who he is.

Nope definitely not U and for me that would be the end of it. My 16 yr old has better manners than that. Dump him and be glad you found out early.

I don't think it was his sister who picked him up........

When I was younger my sister used to pick me up all the time and was happy to drop off friends/boyfriends/random people I'd met that night!

Similar to a PO, I also think I’m pretty laid back and reasonable (like I wouldn’t jump to the conclusion that it wasn’t his sister in the car ), but this is a massive warning sign. My ex-H did small selfish things like this when we were first getting to know each other and I just wish I’d been a bit wiser and more respectful of myself.

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