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Ex dp, ds, fake name, extra kids, second thread

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Fedupofitnow123 · 28/11/2019 22:47

Thank you for your continued support, I'm starting this thread regarding the impending court hearing tomorrow, if someone could link my previous thread that would ne highly appreciated!

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Ogham · 16/03/2020 09:19

Best of luck today, I think you’re amazing 💐

DPotter · 16/03/2020 09:45

Good luck!

Fedupofitnow123 · 16/03/2020 09:46

We're at the court, I've asked for the McKenzie friend she said "relating to you?" I said "sister" she went "No!" And shut me down as quick as that! Gutted, and from feeling like I've got this to feeling really nervous

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Starlight2004 · 16/03/2020 10:08

OP I've read your thread and just wanted to say you are amazing and send some support. You have 100% got this!

Fedupofitnow123 · 16/03/2020 10:34

Thanks, really not feeling it! Cannot wait for it to be over!

Why won't they let her in as a McKenzie friend :(

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caffeinefix · 16/03/2020 12:29

Oh she sounds like a witch!

Grrrpredictivetex · 16/03/2020 12:50

@feelinghelplesstoday not definite but this says you can have a family member. Maybe contest it if you feel up to it. Good luck x

Ex dp, ds, fake name, extra kids, second thread
BumbleBeee69 · 16/03/2020 13:32

OP thinking of you today.. be strong Flowers

Greenkit · 16/03/2020 13:36

I hope it goes well xxx

Sounds horrendous

AcrossthePond55 · 16/03/2020 14:05

Hope all is going well today.

Sorry you couldn't get your sis into court with you. Sounds as if the person who said 'no' may not have understood the McKenzie rules?

picklemewalnuts · 16/03/2020 14:13

It's just awful that you are having to fight so hard! The system should be working for you. Hang in there.

BackseatCookers · 16/03/2020 14:19

Thinking of you so, so, so much today Thanks

slipperywhensparticus · 16/03/2020 14:33

Good luck

RandomWok · 16/03/2020 14:46

Think of you. I hope it's going well Flowers

DPotter · 16/03/2020 17:31

That does seem very unfair. The information I have on McKenzie Friends specifically mentioned family.

Really hope things went OK for you today

Catting · 17/03/2020 10:25

How are you op?

Grrrpredictivetex · 17/03/2020 15:12

@Fedupofitnow123 I do hope you're doing ok. I imagine you're exhausted after such a stressful day, but hope the outcome was favourable to you. Big hugs 🤗

Fedupofitnow123 · 17/03/2020 15:24

Hi everyone! Sorry I was completely exhausted yesterday and had no energy, didn't get home until 7pm!

So the court was postponed and will be moved closer to me for the next one! He has made a load of allegations about my mental state, the fact I've planned all of this and apparently I abuse my ds.

Well, I must say, I have the best plans, to get pregnant, leave with £30,000 of debt in my name, go homeless, go to court while pregnant and all this to hurt him for when he messaged another woman over a year ago... that's what he is actually saying... what a fabulous plan!

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SalmonSushi · 17/03/2020 15:37

Surely the court will see through this, you have so much evidence?

caffeinefix · 17/03/2020 15:43

I can't believe the tripe that comes out of his mouth! Surely they should see through it. It's good they've moved it closer to you - will save you having to get another train down and spend more money!

He needs his mental health questioning if anything!!

Fedupofitnow123 · 17/03/2020 16:15

I hope they see through it, he makes a good job of talking over the judge and saying he doesnt agree with things, so we will see

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FishingPaws · 17/03/2020 16:27

he makes a good job of talking over the judge

Judges tend not to like that!

Brenna24 · 17/03/2020 16:34

Exactly. I hope that he keeps that nonsense up. I am so sorry that the court was postponed after everything that you went through to get there.

Daftapath · 17/03/2020 17:21

Judges aren't stupid, they have seen it all so 🤞🏻

TheTiaraManager · 17/03/2020 19:09

That's good you got a postponement. Do you know when it is postponed until?

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