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He won't accept we're separated

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cece · 24/11/2019 21:33

We split nearly three months ago after I found out about an inappropriate relationship with another woman. It's not the first time and I said if it happened again we'd split. So we have.

However, he's still messaging me daily to ask me to talk about saving our marriage. I've told him repeatedly I don't want to talk about this as it's over. I feel trapped. He's just not listening to me.

OP posts:
Sssloou · 12/03/2021 23:20

Fantastic news - such obstruction and obfuscation - but you kept going. He’s not above the law and you stood your ground.

Hope that you new home is calm, peaceful and full of joy.

AzraiL · 12/03/2021 23:39

That is amazing news! What fortitude and patience you've shown! 💐💐💐

WisnaeMe · 12/03/2021 23:47

wonderful news 🌺

Sicario · 13/03/2021 12:41

Wonderful news! Let's all have a virtual house-warming party with you next week. I'll bring the cake and crisps.

ThePluckOfTheCoward · 15/03/2021 16:12

I've been following your thread from the start Op and like others have been so impressed by your determination and steadfastness in the face of your idiot ex. I really hope the move goes well and you and your DC thrive and prosper in your new home. All the best for the future.

ThePluckOfTheCoward · 15/03/2021 16:13

@notapizzaeater

He's a first class dick, he's almost like king Canute
This is brilliant and totally apt 😂😂
cece · 15/03/2021 18:57

Thank you all. Only a few days now and I'll be relaxing in my new home.

OP posts:
missmarplesapprentice · 19/03/2021 13:33

Hope everything went ok OP. You've come so far through all this and have my fingers crossed it all went through for you.

cece · 20/03/2021 19:43

Well I've moved. I'm in. Everything is still in boxes but life is good.

OP posts:
Sssloou · 20/03/2021 20:03

Huge congratulations - savour that feeling. This is the rest of your life!

WisnaeMe · 20/03/2021 20:23

Congratulations OP on this wonderful day, just brilliant 🌺

everythingbackbutyou · 20/03/2021 20:23

Nothing less than you absolutely deserve

GettingItOutThere · 20/03/2021 21:32

@cece

Well I've moved. I'm in. Everything is still in boxes but life is good.
read your entire post! congratulations!!

did you get a better settlement in the end? find the missing money?

have you heard from him since?

SeaEagleFeather · 20/03/2021 22:19

That's wonderful cece. Here's to freedom and fresh air!

Sicario · 21/03/2021 09:29

BRILLIANT! So happy for you.

Dullardmullard · 21/03/2021 09:30

Woohoo!!!

Daftapath · 22/03/2021 12:36

Great news! Best of luck

Lollypop701 · 22/03/2021 21:50

Enjoy your new house, life and freedom op

DPotter · 22/03/2021 22:56
Flowers best wishes for your new home!
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