Do I tell the husband about his wife?

[Bailey500]

Two weeks ago I found out my partner was cheating... its hit me very hard because we went through so much to be together and built the most incredible house/life together... Then a 25 year old instagram model came along... (im 34) We dont have children but were going to start trying in january, we are trying to patch things up slowly and my feelings are changing daily so not really sure what will happen. But have a burning desire to tell her husband, I have suffered so much and just think its unfair that he doesn't know and that she just gets away with being so reckless! Should I tell him?!

[Miniloso]

@ConcreteUnderpants

Unnecessary and pointless comment.

[Bailey500]

@ConcreteUnderpants it turned out he had lied to her also, he had said he was single, getting divorced and wanted to be with her... he told me she knew all about me and that she was a man chasing home wrecker... He had played a lot of things down and after speaking to her I realised the true extent of everything. Yeah things took many different turns after my original post!

[Bailey500]

@ConcreteUnderpants Oh and she was actually separated from her husband so there was no need to tell him in the end

[combatbarbie]

How do you know that though, she could just be feeding you so you don't tell. I don't doubt he's spun her lies too though

[Bailey500]

@combatbarbie he finally came clean and admitted it all. She also said I could contact her ex if I wanted to as their split has been amicable. She is a very genuine nice person who has also been hurt at the hands of this monster...

[BentlyandPalmers]

I would tell him and anyone else she knows that you can get to. Can you put it on her Instagram page? Is that legal?

Then I’d walk out.

[BentlyandPalmers]

Oh I seem to have missed four crucial hours of thread 😁

[MrsNotNice]

BentlyandPalmers

Spectacularly

[combatbarbie]

I've no doubt she has been hurt but you only have to look at the other thread running to see how batshit some people can be about lying to get out of a hole

[SherbetSaucer]

I would tell her and then I would instantly off-load him! Don’t have a child with him, it will end in tears!

[Collision]

Oh @SherbetSaucer

Why don’t you read the thread? 🤷🏼‍♀️