Why are thereso manyfemale MRAs on MN? I'm staggered.
That people have different opinions to you,? That staggers you?
What staggered menus so many feminists try and insult other women for voicing an opinion.
Let's look at what you quoted.
Yes, women are far higher risk of death. A man, on the whole, has a higher chance of killing a woman with his bare hands.
What you are forgetting is that domestic abuse isnt just about pain and how much damage can be inflicted. A large part of domestic abuse, is the emotional impact, the shame, the embarrassment, the feeling you caused it. Those things can damage peopel irreparably. And men suffer from that side of it as much as women. With the shame, sometimes more so.
Why? Because people like some of the people posting here still think it's ok to blame a victim when violence is committed against them, if the victim is a man.
Again, if a woman is hitting a man because she knows he wont hit her back because he is aware he will damage her more, that makes her the dominant one. That's abuse. The dominant one isnt always the physically strongest. It's the one in a position if power.
And lets not forget, this op hit her husband while the car was moving. In her rage she put all their lives at risk. You really think that's ok, or should be filed under 'women dont cause that much damage'?
I have daughter and I have a son. I dont want either of my children to be abused by their partner and then blamed for it. Because they goaded them, spoke at the wrong time, shouted etc.
Theres no excuse for violence. The power isnt always with the strongest one. No victim should be blamed. The damage isnt always physical and less physical damage doesnt make it ok.
Is it ok if a man hits a woman but is very careful to jot hit her too hard? He hits her but she doesnt have Mark's? He did do it in the car with the kids in, but nothing bad happened that time, so it's ok?