Nagging feeling

[onemoresmartie]

Hi everyone

If you suspected someone was messaging your partner would you contact them to ask or take your partners word for it?
It is an ex from last year and I was with him before and now again after. They live hundreds of miles apart now but she messaged him at New Years when I was with him, at first he tried to hide it from me but I saw it and called him out on it.
He said that was the first time he had heard from her in a long time and he deleted and blocked her but I can't help this nagging feeling that there could be more to it.
Would a Facebook message to her be so bad to find out once and for all?

OP you need to get help! This isn’t about him, it’s about your chronic low self esteem. The problem is you kept looking for him to change which absolved you from your responsibility to yourself.

You need to spend a considerable amount of time understanding yourself. The self flagellation needs to stop!

Read my name.
Your post had made me feel physically sick.
I'm.not saying your should not be hurt but some of the stuff you have written has made me angry and sick.
Some may think I'm a cow but I do not care you need a good hard look at yourself. You have a son.

I'm not allowed to crack recently widowed with 3 small children. You need to grow up and stop being drama queen. Find it also offensive your post about ending it all.... go and see a gp and get some help or just stop being a dram queen. Your options are simple.

Your poor son is who i feel for and you are doing yourself no favours on this thread. It wasn't love. He didn't care. Stop drinking and grow up.

Warriorprincess you are clearly projecting. You're not allowed to crack comment says it all. I'm sorry for your recent loss but that doesn't mean you get to tell people hpw tp feel. People have all kinds of problems in this world and it doesn't mean that hers is any less than yours. This is a forum for people to write on anonymously and get help and support. Comments like yours are not helpful. I get you may feel frustrated but not everyone has to jump to people's advice immediately. Maybe this is all the op has to vent and get reflection. In your own hurt please don't take it out on other people. Maybe start your own thread.

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