I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

Cunts, both of them, had something very similar happen with partner and a close friend, it’s fucking disgusting, keep going OP, you’re doing so well

I'm so sorry this has happened, OP.

Just Awful for you OP. My heart would be beating fast! They are despicable humans! Try and keep a clear calm head. Good luck. We are right behind you xxxx

Oh my, you've done amazingly OP, sending you lots of strength

OP I know your heads a mess and this won’t be a priority but get yourself booked in for a full sexual health check just to be sure.

You sound so brave, whereas he sounds like a total coward who couldn't even say anything to you. I have a feeling you're going to wipe the floor with him! Serves him right.

I've just got thrown back to April and I'm rite back there with you I haven't stopped being with you since I read this thread

Please don't take this crap

Wow go you, that is totally the sort of thing I'd do and if I knew the hubby I'd have added him too! If it's going to come out it may as well be in style and now there's no denying to anyone because you have it all on your phone.

I know you will now be in a blind spin but you have done the right thing calmly. Thinking of you x

Have you got someone in RL to ring or talk to op? Get your family or friends in the loop straight away for support. Sending you love. x

You have balls OP. Something I would like to think I'd do in that situation but I bet I wouldn't.

Shit the bed!
Fair play.
There’s no worming his way out of it... has he tried?

You should be so so proud of yourself op. I wish I had had your guts a few years ago.

Good luck.

You are a strong, amazing woman who deserves so much more and a wonderful role-model to your children. Cold and calm and head held high is best way to show you despise him. Good luck and oodles of virtual hugs.

Good for you! Try to stay strong you are a tough cookie x

Bloody hell.

I'm sorry lass. I hope you can use this anger to get together all the things you'll need.

Is she married? Send her husband the messages if so.

And yes, throw him out, what a bastard.

This is the beginning of a whole new, arsehole free life for you lovely

I feel so proud of you and I don't even know you. I'm so sorry they have done this to you. Like others said, don't shout, stay strong, chuck him the bag and tell him to get to fuck! Then shout about it on here xxxx

Oh op I've been there but well done for the way you handled it.
Have you got someone who can come over and shit with you?

I"m sorry you're going through this. What a twunt he is.

Thinking of you OP.

I hope he’s been chucked out now. What a dick.

Sit obviously not shit

Oh crap, what shits they are. I've no advise as never been through it but don't be fobbed off. Stand strong and do what you want/feel best and don't be swayed my him. Xxx

OP