I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

So sorry this is happening to you and your children. Get him out ASAP and speak to a lawyer first thing tomorrow.

well done you. Keep strong.

Jesus wept Op, how fucking awful. You rock though, I’d never have thought of that in time.

Send him off to his OW !!!

Oh lovey take care of yourself.

This is utter shit

One day, when the dust has settled and you feel less raw you truly get to treasure the look on his face when you asked about his slow wank. They, in the meantime will realise they have nothing in common and be miserable.

You are brave and you can do this

Solicitor first thing tomorrow.

Oh OP, I feel like crying for you. What assholes. Both of them. Well done. Now the hard bits. But you sound so strong. Get him out then call someone you can talk to and see if they can come be with you.

So sorry op

Wow! Well done OP, you may not feel it but how strong are you?!

Throw his bag at him and send a message to his tart that she can have him. I so hope she is married as then your dickhead of a husband has nowhere to go. Really feel for you, but you are awesome in how you handled it.

Been there too. It's horrible. Stay strong.

You are amazing. Stay strong x

As soon as his sorry arse is out of the door do you have someone you can call for RL support? I know it’s getting late but if you were my friend I’d be straight round. And I would be messaging OW’s partner if she has one.

Good luck and you're being very brave (whilst reserved!)

What a pair of cunts. So sorry op

Cold and matter of fact is more damning than tears and shouting. Stay strong

Agree. Here for you OP

Sorry this has happened. You deserve so much better than him.

How despicable can some people be.

What a pair of fucking shits. I hope the bag hits his head nice and squarely.

I feel for you OP. I really do.

Good for you. How awful for you - stay strong

BTW though I know you must be in bits I think you are an absolute stone cold legend for getting them like that.

Good on you. You sound stronger than I've ever managed to be. Hope it all works out and that they're bricking it! X

I sent you a pm honey. Do NOT give him the satisfaction of going crazy and shouting. Just get him out of the house, tell the kids he had to go to work early or whatever fits your situation and stay calm and collected for them. This is hard but you can do this.